Court coming up this Friday

[mum]

Hey, just put this on the wrong post, but the sentiment remains the same: this solidarity (OR, Cadbury, Mia)
 is POWER.

[mudpuppy]

Cadbury,

ExN is trying to build a rocket that will make NASA obselete (can we say grandiose ideas of self-importance anyone???!!) so he will hopefully be moving away from us soon.

That's hilarious. Has he got a Buck Rogers decoder ring too?

If we're lucky he'll succeed. Then he and all the other pod people can fly back home to the Nutter Nebula or Planet Butthead or wherever it is they came from.

mud

[Cadbury]

  Mudpuppy!

It is so funny now, but when I was with him I was not allowed to question him at all. We even had a really awful fight when I said I wouldn't go up in his rocket....

TH: WHAT???? What do you mean you wouldn't go up to space in my rocket?
Me: I mean, I wouldn't go up to space in anyrocket. Not even if NASA asked me
TH: My rocket will be better than anything NASA have built (beginning to pout)
Me: Well, I still wouldn't go up in it
TH:I can't believe you won't go up in my rocket. DOn't you trust me?


Then it kind of escalated into a huge row, where I was (apparently) showing my lack of respect to him by refusing to go into space in his rocket. That he hasn't even built yet.

It sounds so funny now, but it really wasn't at the time. I can't believe I was so wrapped up in his insane world that I spent hours trying to convince him that I did trust him, that it was my problem that I didn't want to go to space not his..... Madness!!!

Mia I hope everything is okay tomorrow, best of luck. I will be thinking of you ... hugs


Oh, one more thing, I just remembered. After we had broken up and he was still pestering me, he came round to my house with a plastic model of a rocket he had made... Apparently to show me what I was missing out on........

[Hopalong]

Cabury,

"Doesn't Daddy wanna pway wif his wittle wocket?"

"Do we want Daddy to go 'way and pway wif his wittle wocket? Ooo yesss we doooo!"

"Yes, Daddy's all wobbly in his head, he's wight off his wocker!"

"That's wight, Daddy needs to go to Hisanus on a one-way wocket..."

PHWOOSHHHHHHH....

afterburners!!!

 

Wuv and wuck tomorrow!
Hopalong

[Sela as guest]

I'm sorry.  You guys have me in stitches!!

Then it kind of escalated into a huge row, where I was (apparently) showing my lack of respect to him by refusing to go into space in his rocket. That he hasn't even built yet.

I swear!  I know it wasn't funny then.......but by jeez.......I just about died laughing now!

And then I read Hoppy's "Hisanus" and my head fell off and rolled across the floor, I was roaring so loud!!

Mia!

I'm saying a very long prayer for you tonight.  No joking involved.  And I just know God will understand, if I happen to giggle inbetween .......for He will understand....that I can't help myself....after reading this page of this thread.
Best of luck Mia!  Keep your chin up!!  My thoughts are with you!  Hope it goes very well!

  Sela

[Sela as guest]

PS:

...Nutter Nebula or Planet Butthead or wherever it is they came from.

Hoi.  Heeheeheeheeheehaahahahahaa!!  I'm dying!!

 

[mia]

Well, the preliminary ruling came down yesterday and the Judge gave ex N everything he was asking for.  It's a new Judge who just so happens used to be the county solicitor who worked with X N's father in the county.  XN's dad was the director of the county's health dept.
Hmmm...a special favor?

This is the first time a Judge ever ruled against me like this and I have been to court 6 + times.  My attorney has an opportunity to argue this morning in court but usually the judges stick to their preliminary decisions.

I am so sick over this.  THe kids will be spending more time with him...school overnights.

Keep praying though...I'm not ruling out a miracle yet. 

God bless all.

Mia

[Hopalong]

Mia

Forgive me for getting your and Cadbury's Nmen court/center moments mixed up there for a bit...
I think I'd just like to put them BOTH on a rocket and send them you know where.

I am sending you prayers and support for this tough day.

Please post as soon as you can to tell us how it went, and try not to worry.

(((((Mia)))))

Hopalong

[Hopalong]

God, Mia, I am so sorry to hear that.
Is there any way you can appeal?
Do you have a good lawyer who can fight it with you?
The idea of the favortism makes me sick.

I'll pray for a miracle too.
(So sorry for joking around on this thread, you're really in a terribly painful situation and I shouldn't have veered off...jokes are good but I should've put them in a separate place, that's all.) I'll watch it.

Sending love and support.
Please keep us posted.

Hopalong

[Brigid]

Mia,
I'm still praying that this idiot judge will come to his senses.  I feel so badly for the kids.  Hang in there kiddo.

Hugs and blessings,

Brigid

[Plucky]

Oh no Mia,
This is so wrong.  Do not give up.  Please try to have the strength to keep fighting and stay centered for the children.
Don't judges with personal ties to the people involved have to recuse themselves?
Is there anyone in your X's past who has similar ties but can provide some evidence to this judge that he is unstable?
I am so sorry this happened!  It seemed impossible, just because it is so wrong.
((((((Mia))))))))))
Plucky

[Cadbury]

Oh Mia,

I am so sorry to hear that. I will pray so so so hard for the miracle you want. I cannot believe people like your ex get away with so much....

Hugs to you - stay strong

[aj]

Mia,

Are your children siding with your ex?  If you think that they might be even just a little please google parental alienation syndrome.

[Sela]

So sorry to hear this Mia.

Keeping you in my prayers and hoping for a major change for the better.

((((((((Mia))))))))))

Sela

[mia]

I feel my attorney represented me well today in court.  The Judge appeared to be willing to reconsider his preliminary.  He advised my lawyer that he will review it and will make a conference call on Monday with both attorneys. I feel this is a good sign b/c normally a Judge finalizes his decision right there and then at the court hearing. My lawyer seems optimistic as well.

There is a possibility for appeal if the preliminary decision ends up standing and my attorney's partner is one of the best appeal lawyers in the state...so I would have him do it.  It won't be cheap but it's something I would need to do.

I have faith today.... It's A gift I  that a friend reminded me about and helped point me in the Right direction.

I guess I'll be posting the final ruling on Monday.  My life at times is a soap opera so it's appropriate that today would be a "cliffhanger Friday".
    But whatever the ruling may be....I will not let it stop me from finding peace.

Re: PAS....no the children don't side with ex and are distraught over the time they currently spend with him.
If it were left to them they wouldn't leave to visit him.  In fact , my daughter wants me to take her to court with me so that she can tell the Judge she doesn't like going to Dad's house.  Unfortunately, the kids are only 5 and 8 and the Judge would listen but wouldn't act on anything they requested. 

Thanks for all the support, positive thoughts,  vibes, hugs, and prayers.  I'll take anything I can get.  Keep hope alive my friends.

God bless.
mia