Hi all! A fascinating thread indeed! for myself, I've always had cats and discovered early on in childhood that they were my only source of unconditional love. They never judge you, love you no matter what, and don't care what is going on with you. They always seem to know when you're hurting and need comfort and love. Amazing! My cats have seen me through severe disabling depressions when they were all I could care for and not myself. I'd go without food etc but they were always looked after- even through some psychotic episodes. They were often the sole reason I would be reluctant to suicide. Unless you're a true animals lover, people don't get it and think you're nuts! I have always considered people who dislike animals and whom my animals have disliked- to be suspicious and not people I want anything to do with. animals are excellent judges of character- even if we don't see anything overtly off with someone. My ex N would be nice to my cats if he wanted something from me, and abusive to them otherwise. flung them off sofa, wouldn't allow them to snuggle, often " forgot" to feed them if I was late or away and ignored any illnesses that required my knowledge and usually trips to vet. My cats never really bonded with him either and mostly avoided him. Should have paid more attention to their feelings and actions than my own initial delusional thinking! Hugs, Moira