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brokenheart

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hopalong, healme, jacmac, write, bean, brigid, spyralle, mum, deb
« on: March 30, 2006, 08:11:55 PM »
 :) I just wanted to thank you guys for your support. from my original post on 3-2-2006 17 years and he just left..... update............

 I filed for a divorce last friday and served him his papers last night at work.

The 19 year old called my cell phone 10 mins after I left and asked me why I was looking for her, I said honey I don't have time for you I was there to see my husband. and I hung up on her.....

10min later he calls me after he has read the papers and was upset at the amount of support I'm requesting and that the kids are on his insurance, I told him the court requires them on both of our insurances. he got mad hung up....

20 mins later he calls back totally different attitude....

Said that he just talked to the 19 year old "friend" who admitted to him that she has been calling me saying everything that I have told him and they got into it.... I said well I tried to tell you but you could see no wrong in your friend.... what kind of friend is she to call your wife up and ruin your marrage? I told him that I'm done with it, life is to short and I'm going to enjoy it..I hope she was worth ruing our life together... then silence over the phone................ then his work phone rang and he let me go.  we have a court date on the 18th......  
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mum

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Re: hopalong, healme, jacmac, write, bean, brigid, spyralle, mum, deb
« Reply #1 on: March 30, 2006, 10:07:07 PM »
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I told him that I'm done with it, life is to short and I'm going to enjoy it..

Brokenheart: the above quote sums it up! Good for you.... You have that sentence as your battle cry....
Sending you lots and lots of strength, love and happiness!!
Mum
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moonlight52

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« Reply #2 on: March 30, 2006, 10:13:49 PM »
BrokenHeart, You sure sound strong and like you have a fresh new outlook on life. Gift within the problem.
Hugs
Moonlight
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Hopalong

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Re: hopalong, healme, jacmac, write, bean, brigid, spyralle, mum, deb
« Reply #3 on: March 30, 2006, 10:43:47 PM »
I'm proud to read you, Braveheart.

You hold on.
You a fierce proud strong woman and you will come out FINE.
You do honor to women and kids everywhere.

And there is happiness around some bend for you.

Hops
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"That'll do, pig, that'll do."

Brigid

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Re: hopalong, healme, jacmac, write, bean, brigid, spyralle, mum, deb
« Reply #4 on: March 31, 2006, 08:36:59 AM »
brokenheart,
I know the pain you are in right now, but I assure you that you have made the right decision.  He doesn't, didn't and never will deserve you.  I hope you have a good attorney to help you get what you need for you and the children.  I also hope you have a support network of friends and/or family that can help you emotionally.  Great also if you have a therapist to help you heal those wounds he has inflicted.

Your name is brokenheart now, but have faith that you will move on to braveheart, angryheart and finally to better-off-without-himheart.

Many blessings,

Brigid
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« Reply #5 on: April 02, 2006, 10:32:18 PM »
Hi  brokenheart,

I’ve been thinking about you and how you are.  I’m so happy to hear that you are doing good.  You’re a great example of a MoM to your children.   Your children are very lucky to have such a loving person as you.  Hang in there your blow to your heart will soften and better things will come to you.  You are Strong , You are a warrior.   

Deb
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