Hiya Pb
thanks for your message
(you can PM me anytime too you know, as can anyone).
You thought about that for 3 days? I do that kinda thing too. Takes me a while to understand things sometimes (bashes head). I do like to understand though! I sometimes am wary of posting stuff in bold underlined coz it looks like I'm making a point too strongly.....but then again, I read what others post like that, so it works if you're skimming a post I guess. Boundaries eh. Yeah, took me ages. I think of it as: I'll tell that person that if they do that again, I'll do this. And if they do it, i do whatever I said I'd do (you've got to stick to your position). I can control what I do and I will! My boundaries.
Take care ((((((Pb))))))
