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don't be judgemental please!

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jacmac, as guest:
PLEASE NOTE, THAT IS JACMAC SPEAKING AS GUEST.  I WOULD NOT WANT TO MISTAKEN AS THE GUEST WHO HAS BEEN POSTING LATELY.
i cannot log in from this computer  :(

Lizbeth:

--- Quote from: Anonymous ---Bravo, Lisbeth.  You are recognizing Narcisstic behavior, and calling attention to the fact that you do not have to deal with it.  Remember, Narcisstic people love to mince words and argue semantics.  Empathetic people are able to see the meaning behind the words, even if what is said isn't one hundred percent grammatically correct, or if the perfect word isn't used.  Empathetic people want to understand each other, Narcisstic people need to be right.  Congratulations, Lisbeth, you responded perfectly.
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I am just so tired of being bullied by people who seem to think they have a right to "demand" this and that of you, who attempt to edit your speech, which is a poorly disguised attempt to silence you, intimidate you from saying anything that rocks their boat or makes them face themselves.

Lizbeth:

--- Quote from: jacmac ---Liz, that's me  :o you're quoting, I couldn't log on and I sent you an PM to explain.  I'm not being sarcastic, I mean it.  Do you see what's happening?  This "Guest" has got us doubting each other already.  I spoke about this in the other thread, the one entitled:  "Why post as guest".  I mean that you're very insightful to see that "Guest" here is behaving Narcisstically, because he or she, whoever they are, really is.
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Hi Jacmac, I knew it was you, I was agreeing with you by quoting you.  But you are right, I'm not going to bother to respond to "Guest" postings any longer, unless the guest identifies themselves as you did.  I forget to log in sometimes but I always put Lizbeth as Guest when I do.    There is no way to identify one guest from another so I'm just going to ignore them, especially since they seem to act like "N's" when their view of the world is questioned.  I know from all my reading here and other places that the best thing to do with an N is to play by the NO CONTACT rule and ignore them.

Did not mean to stir up such a hornet's nest but it sure has been an eye opener.

P.S.  I don't have my PM turned on, sorry.  Will have to look into doing that now that I feel a little more secure here.

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