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Gingerpeach:
Hello Portia,

Thank you so much for your recognition of my "anniversary."  It really IS an important day for me!  And I probably  will not not do anything special tomorrow as I will be packing for a two week holiday with my mother and my cousin.  That is my treat for myself!   I chuckled at your offer to take me out to lunch because we are going to the UK!  Thank you for your good thoughts and I am enjoying your bouquet of flowers in my imagination!

Gingerpeach

Anonymous:

--- Quote from: Anonymous ---I hope beyond hope that this is just a "first few years of marriage" problem.
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Unfortunately your husband's behaviors don't sound temporary.



--- Quote from: Anonymous ---We went about 5 times but he complained about it every time, and got mad at me for things I said during counseling.  Finally he had to go on a business trip.  When he came back he never asked about or mentioned counseling.  I decided I was tired of taking too much of the responsibility.  So, I called the counselor and said we were stopping for now.
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I think you're giving up too easily. You can bring up to the therapist during the session that your husband will be angry with you afterwards. The therapist will likely offer to talk on the phone to you or your husband between sessions. This marriage needs professional help, from your description of it.

bunny

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