What my day was like

[pennyplant]

You might just have your answer then, Hopsy.  In my life, I have made something of a vow not to fight the prevailing currents, in favor of seeing what the forces around me are saying and then finding my way in like that.  So, I can understand where you're coming from.  Not fighting it is a valid choice which also might be the wiser choice for you.  I have seen people consumed by legal battles.  But that was the right choice for them.  Sounds like your heart is telling you maybe something else.  That's cool, Hopsy.

PP