Author Topic: What goes around comes around  (Read 3146 times)

Anonymous

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What goes around comes around
« on: February 28, 2004, 04:22:44 AM »
Timeline of posts by Guest, signed as “Guest”:


Post Title --------------------------Date -------Time (PST)--------- #
                                            February
Why be 'Guest'?--------------------26----------11:00PM-------------1

Why be 'Guest'?--------------------26----------12:44PM-------------2

Why be 'Guest'?--------------------26------------2:36PM------------3

Why be 'Guest'?--------------------26-----------4:48 PM-------------4

new to this...----------------------- 26------------5:35PM------------5
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new to this...------------------------26------------7:13PM------------6

Musings------------------------------26-----------10:00PM------------7

I'm OK, You're OK------------------27-----------11:23AM------------8

lack of empathy-
 hurts like hell-----------------------27-----------2:56 AM------------9

Musings------------------------------27-----------12:25PM------------10

Musings------------------------------27------------1:58PM------------11

Musings------------------------------27------------2:14PM------------12

I'm OK, You're OK------------------27------------3:47PM------------13

I'm OK, You're OK------------------27------------3:59PM-------------14

Musings------------------------------27------ ------4:49PM------------15

total paranoia-----------------------27-------------5:32PM------------16

I'm OK, You're OK------------------27-------------8:00PM------------17

Being Voiceless in the
 Voicelessness Forum---------------27------------9:37PM------------18

Effects of growing up
with N... Parent?---------------------27-------  ----9:55PM-----------19

Clinging or Pushing away?----------27-----------10:30PM-----------20

Lost Memories------------------------27-----------11:08PM-----------21


Is this a Guest Marathon?  

Guest, with children, a husband, a career, social events to attend to , SLEEP , eating, and all the other normal activities that take up the hours of family life, I’m confused at where you find the time to investigate every detail of these posters in an effort to set them straight?

With that in mind, I went through the trouble of a little investigating. I thought you deserved to be treated with the same thoughtful expense of time that you seem to avail yourself in putting everyone else straight.
Personally, I think you are a fraud, and hope that others that are getting the benefit of your kinder counsel soon see through you. A rule of thumb I live by is to watch how people treat others as a whole. To me it is apparent that you butter up those who don’t threaten you, those who are usually new and in a more fragile state. The scorched earth treatment you give to others of a sturdier nature ( don’t bother looking up to see who used this term in order to identify this poster- I borrowed this term) that should clue them into the true nature behind your more benevolent posts. You make a mockery of those who really do care.

You might pause a moment and consider this famous biblical passage: "first cast the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye." (Matthew 7:4-5)
But you don’t really care do you? You are like a shark on a feeding frenzy.

You don’t have to answer this- I really don’t care about you and your admonishments.

And if you don’t like that I think you are a fraud- well too bad- I am entitled to my opinion.

Another thing, I won't be coming back to this post, I don't need your ill tempered abuse.

Anonymous

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What goes around comes around
« Reply #1 on: February 28, 2004, 04:42:33 AM »
:D Yep obviously it helps to create a paradigm and of course a new thread following on from "Why Be Guest". Create a myth like 'Guests are all the same person'. Then let's see what nonsense paranoia that can stir up like kast time and if possible make everyone hate guests even more. That is so funny :D  :lol: HA HA HA HA. Who ever posted this not only has OCD but paranoia as well and is delusional they are Magnum PI.  The time you have devoted to collating your evidence, with thorough methodical supportable reliable conclusive research. Phooey. But I think I can guess why. Guess you didn't like something a guest said to you recently in 'Why be guest'. Wonder who that could have been? Now let me think? Nah, I 've said what I wanted to say to you? I'll leave it there.

who am I? Guess -- Guest

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What goes around comes around
« Reply #2 on: February 28, 2004, 03:52:51 PM »
One of these guests are telling the truth -- who is it?

PEOPLE WHO WORK VERY, VERY HARD AT APPEARING GOOD, DO SO BECAUSE THEY DON'T BELIEVE THAT THEY ARE.
WE KNOW THIS, BECAUSE ANY HINT AT CRITICISM IS RESPONDED WITH AN INTENSITY THAT DEFIES LOGIC.  WHAT IS THE PERSON SO UPSET ABOUT?  
THAT YOU HAVE PERHAPS SEEN THE TRUE PERSON INSIDE.  AND SO THIS PERSON SETS OUT TO PROVE THAT YOU, INSTEAD ARE THE DEFECTIVE PERSON, NEVER, EVER REALIZING THAT IN FACT, EVERYTHING THAT THEY ARE DOING POINTS TO AND GIVES TESTAMENT TO WHO THEY REALLY ARE INSIDE, WHAT THEY REALLY BELIEVE.  
SO GUEST, KEEP POSTING, EVERYTIME YOU DO, YOU TELL ON YOURSELF.
BUT YOU DO NOT EVEN REALIZE THIS, DO YOU?


People who are comfortable with themselves are not afraid to show weaknesses and faults.  They are not in denial about who they are.[/b]

Anonymous

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« Reply #3 on: February 28, 2004, 08:28:14 PM »
Boy... will you guys stop being so dam immature & get over the "guest" thing and all other petty disagreements?

Those against "guest" for whatever silly reason are  contradicting yourselves by posting as "guest"...

If you are lacking emotional control/restraint as much as it seems, at least stop spewing toxicity on the boards & take the baby stuff private...    

Why subject everyone to all of the nonsense and negativity?   Again, just go private with it.   Arrange to do it somehow...

Guess

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What goes around comes around
« Reply #4 on: February 28, 2004, 11:50:37 PM »
Everytime you reply, you let us (all who are here seeking healing and solace) know who YOU really are.  So, keep on posting.  Your words, your manner, your tone they speak to who you really are on the inside :lol:

Anonymous

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What goes around comes around
« Reply #5 on: February 29, 2004, 12:14:40 AM »
all I say is if you personally are so messed-up you have to harrass people here, I hope things improve for you soon.

It must be hard not being able to just empathise and let things go.

rosencrantz

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What goes around comes around
« Reply #6 on: February 29, 2004, 05:43:09 AM »
It's difficult to know who's talking to who(m) when everyone is 'guest'.

I think the issue of 'guest' is a difficult one - but I don't think it's possible to deal with these issues 'in private' as suggested above.  If you are a guest, you don't have privileges on the Board to send or receive PMs.

But I also don't thnk it's healthy to deal with things 'in private' in that way - potential for way too much damage.  It becomes too personal.

I was looking at another Board last night and was impressed at how healthy and civil it was.  Not restrained but (self-)controlled.  They had a separate section which I think was called 'Fanning the Flames' and had the warning 'Enter at your peril'.  

In fact, going into that section seemed to calm things down - once someone had a good scream or bitch and received some support, they were ready to be good humoured again.

Perhaps it would be healthy for us to have a 'get it off your chest but only read it if you're feeling strong enough' forum here. People could say they were continuing the fight in the 'fight forum', (or be given a friendly warning that it was time for 'time out'!!), have a spat and then come back again.  Meanwhile, people not ready for such 'tough love' (?) could stay safe in the main forum.

I'd call it the Angry Ladybird Forum  :lol:

Portia - I never understood that children's book until I heard you get started!!!  Portia, the Angry Ladybird (Sign-off sig : "Wanna fight???!!!!")  :wink:

R
"No matter how enmeshed a commander becomes in the elaboration of his own
thoughts, it is sometimes necessary to take the enemy into account" Sir Winston Churchill

rosencrantz

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« Reply #7 on: February 29, 2004, 10:40:16 AM »
Eric Carle's book is known as the Bad-tempered Ladybird in the UK - and the Grouchy Ladybug in the US.  But I expect y'all knew what I was talking about.   :)
R
"No matter how enmeshed a commander becomes in the elaboration of his own
thoughts, it is sometimes necessary to take the enemy into account" Sir Winston Churchill

Anonymous

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What goes around comes around
« Reply #8 on: February 29, 2004, 01:00:18 PM »
Quote from: rosencrantz
I was looking at another Board last night and was impressed at how healthy and civil it was.  Not restrained but (self-)controlled.  They had a separate section which I think was called 'Fanning the Flames' and had the warning 'Enter at your peril'.  

In fact, going into that section seemed to calm things down - once someone had a good scream or bitch and received some support, they were ready to be good humoured again.

Perhaps it would be healthy for us to have a 'get it off your chest but only read it if you're feeling strong enough' forum here....
R


I think it's a great idea.  It keeps the stuff that most do not want to be subjected to off the main board, and also gives those who need to say whatever,  work out whatever, or perpetually argue ad infinitum, their place to be heard...  

Also, nobody on the main board is "harrassed".   If someone has a bone to pick with another, they can suggest taking it over to the "venting" board to that person, and the other individual has the choice whether to go there & engage or not.   If they choose not to, the original asker may  not post their grievances to the main board.   They can vent all they like on their own on the "vent" board, however, if they wish.

It seems like that would be a helpful system...

Anonymous

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What goes around comes around
« Reply #9 on: February 29, 2004, 11:02:40 PM »
I think it's clear why so many are signing on as Guest to speak out against the negative behavior that's been going on here lately.  They don't want to be targetted and chased all over the board, having their threads ressurected in an attempt to find the smallest point to exploit and demean the author.  So they respond as Guest, and do not fall into the realm of voicelessness, but at the same time they also protect themselves against the toxic phlem that this GUEST is spewing all over this forum.
R's suggestion is a good one.