Hi Sea,
I'd like to plead guilty on the assumption I've done it!
Here's my take on it. I know that sometimes when I tear upstairs after a long day and pounce on the board I'm both eager to catch up but also really tired, so sometimes I just lose focus on what orginally inspired a thread.
I hear a familiar voice and just crosstalk sometimes. I am sorry if it's ever marginalized you.
But I do think that's kind of a general thing...threads are started by anyone who wants to, and anyone who starts one can ask that their thread stay on topic...but after a page or two of posts it does happen that people sort of slip sideways into other topics.
I think the best way to get more attention to the topic of your thread is just to pop back in and ask for it when that is bugging you. Otherwise, you might set yourself up for hurt or annoyance if people don't remember.
Energy here can flow fast or slow, a bit distracted (though well intentioned) or very focused. It works best for me to just roll with it. If a thread I start has rolled right on past, then I can always rephrase it a little and start a new one on basically the same thing.
Another idea: what about if you really need a thread you start to stay on topic, putting that in the title of the thread? For example, Need An On-Topic Thread About Qumquats. You know? I think that would help this scatterbrain stay with you, anyway.
Most of all, though, I think the best advice I can think of is to not be afraid to pop back into a drifting thread whenever you need to and simply refocus us back on topic. I sure woudln't mind. And that way you don't take it personally, and you're practicing asking for what you need. Always good!
That help at all? Hope so.
Hugs,
Hops