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Hello everyone, I'm new here, and really need some advice!

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kelly8893:
Trying to get away from a N is very difficult unless you do it all or nothing!
I wish I had a better way or idea but believe me, I tried being friends and helping when I could but that just makes you feel just as bad if not worse after he chews for a little while, then spites you out again. The problem is that they will never, never, never, change!!!! When you can little by little get away and only think about you and your child then you can do more bigger steps! It takes time and patience with yourself and sooner or later you will figure out he won't ever change what he is doing. You can only change what you do?! Right?! These people hate change and he will try other ways to get you hooked again but in the end he is still the same and you are worse for the wear!!!  There are people who love you and they want to see you in a healthy loving relationship and if you can focus on that and just do baby steps eventually you will be on the other side and he will be still where you left him no worse for wear because these people do not care the same as us infact they don't care at all, they only care about the supply and the newer the better!!!!! I wish I had better news but after 8 years mine is still the same as when I met him just worse. He has perfected his N down to an art, his new girlfriend has been with him for 1 1/2 years and he has only worked 5 months of that.  They feed off people and are very sick, probably more sick then people with parkinsons.
Good luck and Have a great week!
Kelly

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