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Anonymous:
To Cj, I hope you can feel inclined to come back and continue to share your experience. It is so much like mine.

To Portia, you were beautiful, a side to you I'd only ever glimpsed before. Thankyou

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Philski44:
I too can identify with much of your story.  My feelings were constantly put down and rarely acknowledged.  The shame, guilt, and anger my N father smeared on me almost resulted in a successful suicide at 21.  Now at 44 my boundaries are getting some definition to them, but still need alot of work.

Congrats on finding that voice.  I'm still developing mine.  Haven't got my story out because I'm not sure what it is.  It is coming here and 'listening' to others share their story that I find pieces of mine in them.  I'm finding out "normal" in the midst of an N is anything but....

Welcome and hope you come back.... :D
Philski

Anonymous:
Hi c.j. welcome. It's good therapy getting your story out isn't it. I hope you can continue. Being an only child with problem caretakers and parents is a heavy burden. The depersonalisation is so often the result, also a very scary preocess or stage. It's a good thing to come out of and leave behind. I wish you well.

Hi Philski, or should I say, marathon man. Hope organising the run is going okay for you? Or should I say 'Run Forrest Run.' Be good to hear your story when you're ready. I think my neighbour is an N. He's not a direct problem to me, he's as nice as pie, but his daughter is quite oppressed by him in a very controlling smothering way. She's at uni, going to be a physiotherapist. And she's a very good long distance runner, there have been a few local paper stories on her. Everytime they argue they're so loud, her and her dad. No swearing, but he can be very cruel. Whenever we hear it she runs for hours, sometimes late at night. That's a worry.  I think running must be good therapy for her.

Thanks for sharing

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