NMother-Son Emotional Incest? Eeww...

[CB123]

Bones,

I'm so glad you are away from her.  That she is gone.  Dead.  She shouldnt be taking up space on the planet. 

I'm glad that you are here.  And I'm glad you have found your voice and that we know you.

CB

[Overcomer]

I was watching a 20/20 special on revenge last night.  This one guy was involved in a religious cult that allowed free love (sex...........)  He freaked out and wanted to kill his mother.....................he ended up killing a friend of hers and committed suicide..........

It was tough to watch that show because I can relate to wanting revenge.  I never got abused like Bones!!  (((((((((((((((((((((bones)))))))))))))))))))))  But I still feel like I was and still am to a certain degree emotionally abused.  Sometimes I find myself thinking about some kind of revenge.  Like making my nmom look stupid.  Or invalidating her like she has to me for so many years.  Then sometimes I think, just get away and let her live in her world.....................

[Leah]

Just spotted this .............

"Emotional abuse is underneath all other types of abuse. The most damaging aspect, is the trauma to our hearts and souls from being betrayed by the people that we love and trust."  - Robert Burney

[Bones]

Bones,


Oh my God, I am so very sorry that happened to you   so very sorry. 
I have a friend who survived a very abusive step mom.  She would beat her to a pulp if she got bad grades.  She was only in the 7th or 8th grade at the time. She had told her teacher that she was beat and please to not give her bad grades. He didn’t but she had to do something for him. Yes, sex.  She did. Her dad would just walk out of the house when her step mom would go off on her.  She had asked her teacher when she got to high school would he stop and he agreed.  It did (with her).  There was an investigation later on and the police found pictures of many children.  They asked my friend to wear a wire and set him up.  She did. He went to jail for a very long time.   She had told me through the trial her step mom sat with her and was very supportive and held her hand. 
 
Freaking Monsters.  Who says there is no such thing as the boogey man. 

Deb

I wouldn't be surprised that my Nmom abused the crap out of my older half-sister until she finally found the opportunity to run away from home!  Nmom didn't care as long as she (half-sister) was gone!  Then she could pretend that she didn't exist!

Bones

[Bones]

Bones:

MOTHER

MONSTER

You ended up with the second one.

Thanks, Stormy!

Yes, she was a Bitch-Monster!

Bones

[Bones]

Bones ))))))))))

I am so sorry that your mother was so horrible to you. What she did was monstrous.

Words fail me.  I just wish for you all the healing that you need.

God Bless You.

Sea storm

Thanks, Sea Storm!

Bones

[Bones]

Me too, ((((((((Bones)))))))))).

I'm so very sorry. You deserve/d care and nurturing and kindness.
I hope you'll spend the rest of your life learning to love YOU.

 

Hops

Thanks, Hops!

Bones

[Bones]

Bones,

I am so sorry for what you as a sweet innocent child was exposed to.  I hear you, I see you,


Axa

Thanks, Axa!

Bones

[Bones]

Golly Bones I am sorry too

(((((((((((()))))))))

Blessings to you

moon

Thanks, Moon!

Bones

[Bones]

Bones,

Your female parent has not earned the right to be called a mother, a mother is one in whom you can place your innocent trust.

Oh Bones, you have suffered the worst kind of betrayal, from the one who should have nurtured, cared, and protected you.

As Hops says,  "You deserve/d care and nurturing and kindness.
I hope you'll spend the rest of your life learning to love YOU".

And I hope so too.

God Bless you.

Leah

Thanks, Leah!

Also, I don't feel she deserves to be labeled a "female parent" as she was never a "parent".  She was more like a "womb donor" with no emotional attachment to anything that she did not consider a part of herself.  She often made it a point to tell me that she never planned to have me and wanted to abort me.  Now I suspect my premature birth may have been an unsuccessful attempt to abort herself while trying to focus attention and sympathy on herself.  Obviously, I survived, much to her disgust.

Bones

[Bones]

Bones,

I'm so glad you are away from her.  That she is gone.  Dead.  She shouldnt be taking up space on the planet. 

I'm glad that you are here.  And I'm glad you have found your voice and that we know you.

CB

Thanks, CB!

Even in her grave, I consider her a pollutant because she never cared to act like a human.

Bones

[Bones]

I was watching a 20/20 special on revenge last night.  This one guy was involved in a religious cult that allowed free love (sex...........)  He freaked out and wanted to kill his mother.....................he ended up killing a friend of hers and committed suicide..........

It was tough to watch that show because I can relate to wanting revenge.  I never got abused like Bones!!  (((((((((((((((((((((bones)))))))))))))))))))))  But I still feel like I was and still am to a certain degree emotionally abused.  Sometimes I find myself thinking about some kind of revenge.  Like making my nmom look stupid.  Or invalidating her like she has to me for so many years.  Then sometimes I think, just get away and let her live in her world.....................

Thanks, Kell!

Bones