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dream Interpretation
« on: May 26, 2007, 11:11:50 PM »
DREAM-I was relocating with my ex to Minn. And he and my own went up ahead and picked out a house that was small and outdated and dirty.  I was crying and feeling angry because they made the decision without my input.  This dream came after a job interview which went really well and I am struggling with whether I should take a risk and just leave my job and end the mom saga.  Anyone have any insight on dreams?  I think the key was how out of control I felt and disappointed in what they decided.
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Re: dream Interpretation
« Reply #1 on: May 26, 2007, 11:13:43 PM »
Typo-it was my ex and my mom who made the housing decision without my input
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Re: dream Interpretation
« Reply #2 on: May 26, 2007, 11:23:08 PM »
Oh Kelly. You're tired of them telling you how and where you will live - tired of letting them constrain and confine you. It's not a house, it's your life, and you want to choose for yourself, they don't choose lovingly, they are stingy, they can't help it, they just are.
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Re: dream Interpretation
« Reply #3 on: May 26, 2007, 11:42:08 PM »
Wow I never thought of the stingy angle.  I was thinking more along the lines of not being in control-but now I see that mom would prefer me to live in a shack while she lives in a mansion.
Kelly

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Re: dream Interpretation
« Reply #4 on: May 26, 2007, 11:46:15 PM »
First I see that Mom and Ex are in control (by picking out the house) and think you are just worth dirt!

Yes leave Mom......- daughters are doing it all the time!!

Do for yourself, as you will never get inside their minds...you don't live there.... you live in your own  mind!

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Re: dream Interpretation
« Reply #5 on: May 27, 2007, 12:06:10 AM »
Hmmm Do not know where ex fits in but I know that my mom has a definite plan for my life and it is NOT my plan-But she thinks she knows best-but she says things like "I think you guys have too expensive of tastes" this from a rich woman who keeps the wealth to herself so as not to "spoil" us.  Need to have faith in myself and trust my decisions.
Kelly

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Re: dream Interpretation
« Reply #6 on: May 27, 2007, 12:24:11 AM »
DREAM-I was relocating with my ex to Minn. And he and my own went up ahead and picked out a house that was small and outdated and dirty.  I was crying and feeling angry because they made the decision without my input.  This dream came after a job interview which went really well and I am struggling with whether I should take a risk and just leave my job and end the mom saga.  Anyone have any insight on dreams?  I think the key was how out of control I felt and disappointed in what they decided.
hi overcomer..
i dont know what i have read about your issues here in the forum
except i do recall now about your mom stuff some i think..

myself in reaction to my n. mom
was to be avoidant ... trying to avoid upsetting others..
and losing sight of my own best self development agenda...

as to your dream
seems to about the skill which narcissists can cause others to self doubt and self destruct...
without one being fully aware of all to the extent or ways it has affected one's soul..

myself i tend to think that negative entities see narcissist as a beacon light
to someone who they can use as a portal to antagonizing and weakening the will
and understanding of true altruism...
thus the skill in manipulation of narcissist in many ways is not always their own
but negative entities who recognize by empowering the narcissist in some ways
they can spread evil more readily in this world...
thus not only damaging more the narcissist soul but those they can impact thru the narcissist or psychopath as the case may be...

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Re: dream Interpretation
« Reply #7 on: May 27, 2007, 08:12:28 AM »
whoa MICHAEL.:-):-):) you have a way with words but I can not understand some of this.  So are you saying that I will choose to do the wrong thing just because she would choose the wrong thing for me just to put me in my place?  Or I have been programmed to do what she wants and if I do not that old house is what she will give me.  Or maybe I am thinking if I take this job I will not like my future?
Kelly

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Re: dream Interpretation
« Reply #8 on: May 27, 2007, 08:36:21 AM »
Dear Kelly,

I've been following your story.

I agree with issittoolate and stormchild.  I think your dreamshows several thing:
1.  you feel you don't have control of your life
2.  your mom and x influence you to make decisins which hurt you
3.   your mom and x treat you like dirt

regarding what Micheal wrote, this is what I think:
So are you saying that I will choose to do the wrong thing just because she would choose the wrong thing for me just to put me in my place?    Yes

Or I have been programmed to do what she wants and if I do not that old house is what she will give me.  yes

Or maybe I am thinking if I take this job I will not like my future?  Maybe, but it's not unusal to fear the unknown.  New jobs can make us nervous and that is natural.  I think that if this job comes thru and you like at least 75% of the aspects of this new job, maybe you should take it.  Can you go for a 2 hour walk, alone, and listen to your voice within and see if your inner voice tells you to take the job?

Goodluck and much love,
Sally

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Re: dream Interpretation
« Reply #9 on: May 27, 2007, 09:09:41 AM »
whoa MICHAEL.:-):-):) you have a way with words but I can not understand some of this.  So are you saying that I will choose to do the wrong thing just because she would choose the wrong thing for me just to put me in my place?  Or I have been programmed to do what she wants and if I do not that old house is what she will give me.  Or maybe I am thinking if I take this job I will not like my future?
HI OVERCOMER..
i see that there was a typo when corrected might help some
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as to your dream
seems to about the skill which narcissists can cause others to self doubt and self destruct...
without one being fully aware of all to the extent or ways it has affected one's soul..
NAMELY NOT SEEMS TO ABOUT  BUT seems to be about
i dont know tho how much that helps your question about
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  So are you saying that I will choose to do the wrong thing just because she would choose the wrong thing for me just to put me in my place?  Or I have been programmed to do what she wants and if I do not that old house is what she will give me.  Or maybe I am thinking if I take this job I will not like my future?
but perhaps this will help..
in what i quoted above from you, your wording seems muddled on at least one point..
where you say I HAVE BEEN PROGRAMMED TO DO WHAT SHE WANTS AND IF I DO NOT THAT OLD HOUSE IS WHAT SHE WILL GIVE ME..
u seem to be saying there that you have been so programmed that if u do not follow the program the old house is what she will give me..
such was not the intention of my dream intepretation..and it might reveal that you do what i think is a muddle of thought there
that you tend to give in at times to that programming and it stiill muddles your thought when u try to wrestle with that programming
..what i would say the dream is rather a warning that such programming if u r not careful can still muddle your choosing.
where tho not as u say when u get caught up in that toxic programming that rather than what u say.. IF I DO NOT [WHAT MOST SEEMS SUGGESTED
BY CONTEXT OF YOUR SENTENCE AS FAR AS I CAN MAKE OUT...IF YOU DO NOT DO AS TOXIC PROGRAMMED] THAT THE OLD HOUSE IS WHAT YOU GET
rather the dream is warning you that old programming if you do not follow that old programming you need not get that old house BUT ALSO I WOULD ADD
NOT TO ADOPT ONE OF THOSE TO ME FALSE SPIRITUAL TEACHINGS OF WONDERFUL RICHES THAT LACK THO DEEPER SPIRITUAL UNDERSTANDING..
NOT SAYING THAT SUCH CAN WORK TO SOME DEGREE FOR SOME ..SUCH AS OPRAH BUT IT LACKS THE DEPTH IT COULD HAVE FOR FULLER SPITUAL DEVELOPMENT AND IN MY BOOK THE BEST BOOK FOR THAT IS THE BIBLE DISCERNED WITH FULL SPIRUTAL MATURITY AND NOT AS BABES IN CHRIST OFTEN ONLY PIECEMEAL SEEK TO GRASP ITS FULL INTENTION...
 
MICHAEL... NO NOT MICHAEL THE ARCHANGEL ..OR AT LEAST I AM PRESENTLY NOT AT LIBERTY TO DIVULGE SUCH :)

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Re: dream Interpretation
« Reply #10 on: May 27, 2007, 09:19:23 AM »
Ok I agree about the Bible and in fact am going to make Bible reading and study a priority.  I guess the best counsel is that still small voice that speaks to me he I can quiet the negative tapes in my head and the negative influence my mom has on me.  Another interpretation might be that my husband left me and his standard of living is much lower than mine.  Gonna in read the word now...
Kelly

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« Reply #11 on: May 27, 2007, 09:52:15 AM »
Ok I agree about the Bible and in fact am going to make Bible reading and study a priority.  I guess the best counsel is that still small voice that speaks to me he I can quiet the negative tapes in my head and the negative influence my mom has on me.  Another interpretation might be that my husband left me and his standard of living is much lower than mine.  Gonna in read the word now...
I THINK A VALID INTERPRETATION OF THE BIBLE ON DIVORCE THAT IT DOES NOT JUST MEAN IF THE SPOUSE IS PHYSICALLY DEAD
BUT TOO THE SPOUSE IS SPIRITUALLY DEAD..
I.E.
WHERE THE SUPPOSED GOOD INTENTIONS FOR STAYING IN THE RELATIONSHIP  ARE NARCISSISTIC TO THE DEGREE THAT
REAL CONCERN FOR HEALING THE RELATIONSHIP IS DEAD
IN A SENSE THEY HIDE THEIR KNOWING EVIL AND DOING EVIL TO THE WORLD
BUT THEY HAVE JUSTIFIED THEIR ACTIONS THAT ARE KNOWINGLY
ON THE LEVEL OF BEING POSSESSED BY THEIR RIGHT AND POWER TO KNOW EVIL AND DO EVIL
WHICH AS I READ LUKE 12 IS OF 3 TYPES OF SIN THAT CAN LEAD TO DAMNATION
BUT AS I UNDERSTAND THE GREEK OF THE NEW TESTAMENT .. DAMNATION IS NOT ETERNAL
ALL CAN BE SAVED
AND ALSO COMPATIBLE WITH THE BIBLE IS REINCARNATION

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Re: dream Interpretation
« Reply #12 on: May 27, 2007, 01:11:22 PM »
Well I do not know about that but I DO know that for me to break the spell that has been cast over me for years and to start seeing my life as MY script and not hers-I will be moving in the right direction.  I know this guy once told me when my boyfriend left me to in back to his ex-he said, "are you the co star of HIS show or are you the star of your own show?"  That statement shocked me into reality.  Is it MY life or hers?  The answer is it is MY LIFE AND I WILL DO WHAT I THINK IS BEST FOR ME
Kelly

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Re: dream Interpretation
« Reply #13 on: May 28, 2007, 10:21:49 PM »
Dear Kelly,
   I love dream anayalsis.. I have a dream journal and also studied about dreams in graduate school.
    I would suggest a journal next to your bed . Your dreams tell you about your deepest feelings, needs, and desires.
  In a dream a house is our self. The condition of the house is how we see our self. For example, an old ,broken down house or a new, clean house is how we view our selves.You see your self as dilapidated and 'out of date" Maybe, this is the weight issue
   In your dream ,two people are conspiring to get you an old broken down house. You don't even have any power in getting your own house(which is you and your life).So, your mother and ex are taking your place as "captain of your own ship".You have given them the power for your life rather than you take it.They choose a 'Life" for you that you don't want. However, you are not acting .Instead, you are angry and resentful That is where the dream stops. That sounds like that is what is going on in your real life..
  I think that you are in the place now where you feel that you are not making your own vital choices,but other people are
   It would be so great if you started a dream journal. You can see how you are developing by how your dreams are going.
  It is so fascinating that you would not believe it. It will give you so much insight in to yourself.
          Keep sharing. It is really interesting                                            love Ami

 


kelly,
the house to be might more be the temporary tabernacle for the soul rather than the soul per se...
it is thru this house of clay tho that our soul gains the experiences by which we can lay aside the physical material
and take on our glorified soul body...

which my best understanding is that in this system of salvation it takes at lest 30 some lifetimes..

jesus has at least 30.. according to edgar cayce....