Poll

How many members of your FOO were innapropriate and stepped on your boundaries?

Mother Only
Father Only
Sibling/s Only
Mother and Father
Mother and Sibling/s
Father and Sibling/s
Entire FOO
FOO and extended members of family also
Both parents and both had dysfunctional FOO's too
Bioth Parents and neither had dysfunctional FOO's
Both parents and only one had a dysfunctional FOO
I come from a long line of abuse on both sides of FOO

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lighter

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Blurred Boundaries
« on: June 05, 2007, 03:50:35 PM »
I'm having a difficult time thinking about my FOO and what everyone's role was. 
Very confusing.

I think that a co dependant parent who allows someone else to step over our boundaries is essentially stepping accross the boundary too.  Yes?

On the other hand, they're a victim as well?  No?

They're co dependant or a victim depending on whether or not they allow their children to be harmed?