Narcissist Info (cont) GRANDIOSITY AND GODLIKENESS

[reallyME]

Grandiosity and God-Complex

The narcissist is grandiose.  This means that they believe they are amazing, popular, famous beings, even though they might NOT be.  They HIDE this grandiosity at times, with FALSE MODESTY.

The narcissist "veil of modesty" can come off **ZAP!** just like THAT!  Lowered INHIBITIONS will cause the narcissist to CHANGE MASKS.

Narcissists mimic emotions.  Their faces will switch exaggeratedly as though they are play-acting

"Not GOD'S GIFT TO THE WORLD, but GOD HIMSELF (or, HERSELF)"

The narcissist believes that people are on this planet for THEIR SAKE, not God's or their own.  They believe that people are there to do their bidding, rather than pursue their own interests and the will of God.

A narcissist believes they are never to be judged or faulted and do not have to answer FOR ANYTHING.  The audacity that you'd even EXPECT such a thing from them just BLOWS THEIR MINDS!

The narcissist rationalizes picking on people who seem "lower" than them.  They know that the helpless, weaker and mentally ill will not likely fight back.

They typical reasoning that narcissists use is "Because I said so!"

[axa]

I used to call XN the omnipotent one............. think that is another name for God!


Helpless, weak and mentally ill.... describes his xwife perfectly.

axa

[Gaining Strength]

A couple of weeks ago there was a hearing to determine my father's competency.  It was held right there in the Psychiatric hospital.  My father' doctor testified concerning my father's conditions for almost 45 minutes.  Among the things he testified to was my father's grandiose thoughts, comments and behavior.  The next day my father mentioned it to me.  It really hurt his feelings.  I've never known his feelings to have been hurt before.  He spent some time explaining how he had spent his life not talking about himself, not bragging.  That what I came to identify as his false modesty some years ago.  He is simply incapable of recognizing his endless grandiosity.  He is so self important that he has ZERO interest in anything anyone else has to say - so much so he doesn't give them a chance to say anything.   Now that is grandiosity.

[Ami]

The other think that 'looks "like humility is when they start "groveling" about how awful they have been and how terrible they feel. This is another similar ploy so they can disarm you. Then when they get "back in control", you are going to get it really badly for "making " them get to the groveling point           Love  Ami

[reallyME]

YES AMI!  I have been in that situation.  Note the confusing FLIP FLOP from "SORRY SOUL" TO "PUNISHER"

Them:  "I really didn't mean to hurt you.  It never was supposed to turn out this way.  I'm sooooooo disappointed in myself, how I treated you."

Me:  "I forgive you.  I'm sorry you are disappointed in me as a person."

Them:  "But I'm telling you...if you tell ANYONE what I did to you, I will make it really really BAD for you."

Me:  "That's not very nice nor Godly behavior."

Them:  "well I'm just letting you know.  I KNOW me and I will make things baddddddddd if you tell anyone what I did."

[axa]

Laura,

Know the grovelling one also..... "I have nobody but you, you are so smart, caring etc................... NOPE I WAS JUST PLAIN STUPID

axa