Author Topic: About Goldilocks  (Read 2789 times)

Lupita

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Re: About Goldilocks
« Reply #15 on: June 30, 2007, 02:52:51 PM »
Inner, I totally identify with you. I remember many occasions when I was out of the group. My mom always provoked me so i answer inappropriately in public and then she punished me in public and then I was crying in a corner, when everybody else was having fun. I remember the laughing and my lonely tears. That happened so many times. That heppened in almost every single party of the family. She did it so I do not interact with others. I go to the gym and i still feel the same sensation. I go to work and i still feel the same sensation of isolation.
I see other people lauhing and I do not understand how can they be in a good mood. My mom made sure that I went to school very very mad and appaled every single day of my life. I went to school sour and saw the other kids happy and I did not understand why they were happy. Thank you Inner.

Ami

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Re: About Goldilocks
« Reply #16 on: June 30, 2007, 03:32:48 PM »
((((((( I.Q)))))))))))))))))))))            ((((((((((((((((((Lupita)))))))))))))))))         A Big Hug    Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
   Carl Jung

innerquest

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Re: About Goldilocks
« Reply #17 on: June 30, 2007, 03:57:54 PM »
Children are clays, the parents are potters who mold them.  If the piece turns out bad, who should you blame?  the hands or the product?  When they see the weakness, they blame on you, you are born bad seed, especially they have the same weakness, they would be double hard on you to block their own pain(projection).  Children are twice betrayed.

I love you Lupita.  I love that little girl who has been betrayed, projected. I wish I could comfort you then.

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