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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

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BonesMS:
Characteristics that I have been noticing about N's and people with N-traits:

(1) They think that what they want is automatically theirs, without any question.

(2) They think that what they assume is automatically true.

(3) They act, or are, completely oblivious to the damages they cause.

(4) They believe that the entire universe revolves around them.

(5) They believe that everything should be about them and what they want.

(Feel free to add more that I may have overlooked.  Thanks!)

Bones

Ami:
N's can be late for appointments,but you can't
N's can insult you in the name of honesty,but cannot take any honesty(about them)
N's have little sense of humor
N's have great fear but instead of expresssing it directly, they decimate you when they see it in you
N's are waiting to "get you"i.e. prey
N's think that there ARE perfect people.
When a 'perfect" person shows a flaw--it is time to start looking for another perfect person
N's surround themselves with'lesser' people so they can appear "better"
N's are bullies,but Back down easily when you show strength
 N's  can not admit very basic human weaknesses
 N's can't stand people who excel
  That is a  start                                                                                                                                 Ami

BonesMS:
N's resent people who achieve what they covet.
N's ignore what doesn't "fit" in their little world.
N's can range on a continuum of either being passive-aggressive to being rage-a-holics when things don't go the way they demand.
N's cannot apologize or show remorse when they get "busted" or they attempt to "justify" their destructive acts.

(I'm drawing a blank for the rest.)

Bones

BonesMS:
N's ignore facts that don't "fit" their "world".
N's ignore boundaries after being told "NO" repeatedly.
N's continue to attempt to manipulate others to get what they want and ignore the impact on others.

(I'll probably think of more later.)

Bones

BonesMS:
And I get yet another e-mail, after I'm at work, from Nfriend informing me that her mother's nurse is taking the day off and asking if I'm available to elder-sit immediately?!?!?!?  I simply deleted it without responding because I'm already at my job earning my paycheck!!!!!!  Knowing the nurse, I know she gave doofus plenty of notice that she was taking the day off and doofus waits until literally the LAST second to make other arrangements because she "ASSUMES" that I'll instantly drop my other obligations and committments for her convenience!!  Think again!!!!!  My silence should be a resounding "NO" to that assumption!!!!  I've stopped wasting my time, wasting my breath and wasting my energy explaining the obvious again!

Bones

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