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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
seasons:
Hi Bones,
ANOTHER e-mail from NDoofus ASSUMING that I had nothing to do, nowhere to go and she was going to "drop in". NOWHERE does she ask me anything! I wrote back a very succint answer:
"I AM NOT AVAILABLE!"
Boness,[/u]
How long did it take you to speak up for yourself? I have never said, "I AM NOT AVAILABLE!" It sounds beautiful for the soul.
May your path lead you to love and joy. seasons
BonesMS:
I've been saying it for a long time and now the volume is getting LOUDER. She just sent me another e-mail assuming I have a coupon that I'm going to give her. (Not even asking "May I have it?") My response: "I need my DVDs back and I don't have the coupon."
Bones
Ami:
Dear Bones,
Look at it this way--- you are so much better now than when she went to your graduation with you and when you had your travelogues.
You can identify N behavior much better and you are standing up for yourself.
I see that your situations with her show that you are very different than before . Love Ami
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Ami on November 05, 2007, 01:51:57 PM ---Dear Bones,
Look at it this way--- you are so much better now than when she went to your graduation with you and when you had your travelogues.
You can identify N behavior much better and you are standing up for yourself.
I see that your situations with her show that you are very different than before . Love Ami
--- End quote ---
Thanks, Ami!
That trip to Minnesota was definitely a wake-up call!
Bones
BonesMS:
One of the other things I'm shaking my head about is that recently I've been seeing on the news about a certain NPD person attempting to manipulate the media to feel sorry for her. Watching this pathetic "act" made me look at the criteria for Narcissistic Personality Disorder in the DSM. The more I read, the more it seems to fit!
Bones
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