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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
BonesMS:
NDoofus continues to send me e-mails with non-sequitors. She STILL doesn't get it!
Bones
BonesMS:
I'm still wondering how I'm going to handle Christmas given that I have not been feeling well for over two weeks.
Bones
Hopalong:
Dear Bones,
I truly believe that you can handle Christmas by not handling it.
Just set it over where people who are eager for it can have it.
You can give yourself a gift...of doing nothing.
Letting the holiday pass by...
You can tell BF you want to do your own special New Year,
but no Christmas on that exact date. You need to rest.
Work for you?
Hops
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Hopalong on December 22, 2007, 02:46:02 PM ---Dear Bones,
I truly believe that you can handle Christmas by not handling it.
Just set it over where people who are eager for it can have it.
You can give yourself a gift...of doing nothing.
Letting the holiday pass by...
You can tell BF you want to do your own special New Year,
but no Christmas on that exact date. You need to rest.
Work for you?
Hops
--- End quote ---
With this bronchitis, I don't have any energy for anything.
Bones
BonesMS:
Well, NDoofus called me today stating that she was going to "drop off Christmas presents". Whatever. :roll: She heard my coughing and wheezing and wanted to know what was going on. I told her I have bronchitis. Her response? "Well, I HAVE LARYNGITIS!" (which the sound, tone and quality of her voice said "NOT!") I didn't have enough voice to argue. All I could wheeze out was: "Whatever."
A short time later, she buzzes my security code and says: "Come upstairs to the door" to which I reminded her, AGAIN, I have BRONCHITIS and told her that I'm buzzing her in and come to my door! (No way was I going upstairs where it is cold, damp and drafty for HER convenience!) She was clearly NOT happy that I said NO to her demands. She hands me a paper bag, with a "Merry Christmas" and I gave her back her video. She left very quickly. Inside the paper bag? Unwrapped boxes of crackers, cream cheese, chutney, sparkling cider and cough drops. I'm not sure WHAT to make of THAT!
Bones
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