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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
Certain Hope:
--- Quote from: BonesMS on February 19, 2008, 10:17:04 AM ---
Thanks, Carolyn.
I'm scheduled to work every night this week through Thursday and then will be attending training Friday and Saturday.
Bones
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Does this training lead to promise of advancement and a pay raise, Bones? :D Either way, I hope it's something you enjoy and from which you'll gain some benefits. Will be thinkin of you!
With love,
Carolyn
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Certain Hope on February 19, 2008, 10:31:09 PM ---
--- Quote from: BonesMS on February 19, 2008, 10:17:04 AM ---
Thanks, Carolyn.
I'm scheduled to work every night this week through Thursday and then will be attending training Friday and Saturday.
Bones
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Does this training lead to promise of advancement and a pay raise, Bones? :D Either way, I hope it's something you enjoy and from which you'll gain some benefits. Will be thinkin of you!
With love,
Carolyn
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I can only hope. I'm trying the best I can.
Bones
Certain Hope:
--- Quote from: BonesMS on February 21, 2008, 12:42:40 PM ---
I can only hope. I'm trying the best I can.
Bones
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I know you are doing your best ... trying so very hard. It shows... I can feel it.
I'm believing that you'll reap the harvest, dear Bones.
Love,
Carolyn
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Certain Hope on February 21, 2008, 05:11:03 PM ---
--- Quote from: BonesMS on February 21, 2008, 12:42:40 PM ---
I can only hope. I'm trying the best I can.
Bones
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I know you are doing your best ... trying so very hard. It shows... I can feel it.
I'm believing that you'll reap the harvest, dear Bones.
Love,
Carolyn
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Thanks, Carolyn.
I recently got ANOTHER e-mail from NDoofus and I have not responded to her. She has previously complained that her brother-in-law doesn't speak to her and her sister does not talk to her as much. She has not yet asked why I have not responded. When she has been confronted by her other relatives, she continues to act completely oblivious to WHY everyone is angry at her.
Bones
Certain Hope:
--- Quote from: BonesMS on February 22, 2008, 07:59:34 AM ---
Thanks, Carolyn.
I recently got ANOTHER e-mail from NDoofus and I have not responded to her. She has previously complained that her brother-in-law doesn't speak to her and her sister does not talk to her as much. She has not yet asked why I have not responded. When she has been confronted by her other relatives, she continues to act completely oblivious to WHY everyone is angry at her.
Bones
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Dear Bones,
I don't think she's acting... she seems to be genuinely oblivious. That doesn't mean she should receive pity or enabling as a response... only that maybe the anger at her can get chucked out the door and a new reason for not responding to her could take its place... ?
Just a thought. This is the way I'm trying to view my parents mail-contacts to me... so that they'll no longer arouse madness OR pity, but a detached understanding that this is simply the way they are.
Reason being, somewhere deep inside, I think it's possible for us to convince ourselves that we really are angry at "them"... long past the point where the anger shoulda been replaced by acceptance - not of their bad behaviour, but of our own inability to change them.
Love to you,
Carolyn
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