http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2013/07/dear_prudence_my_husband_wants_a_biological_child_with_his_ex_wife.htmlWhy is EX-wife making this request? *Shaking my head*
As for the other letter regarding the boyfriend's mother "redecorating" and going through EVERYTHING without permission....I would advise the girlfriend to cut her losses and RUN!!! Boyfriend sees nothing wrong with this invasion and expects girlfriend to just "suck it up". Putting it bluntly, the boyfriend's mother would be the MOTHER-IN-LAW-FROM-HELL!!!! One of my former co-workers used to have a mother-in-law who did the same nonsense and the co-worker's husband expected his wife to just "suck it up". That marriage quickly went down the toilet!