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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
Certain Hope:
Bones,
I'm down to about 1 every 3 weeks or so, but the last one wasn't spam... it was actually several lines of personal communication. I didn't respond.
Kinda been down that road once too often, already.
Love,
Carolyn
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Certain Hope on June 25, 2008, 05:44:43 PM ---Bones,
I'm down to about 1 every 3 weeks or so, but the last one wasn't spam... it was actually several lines of personal communication. I didn't respond.
Kinda been down that road once too often, already.
Love,
Carolyn
--- End quote ---
NDoofus just sent me one impersonal junk e-mail yesterday that I simply deleted without comment. I have no idea what is going on between her ears.
Bones
Certain Hope:
--- Quote from: BonesMS on June 26, 2008, 12:37:50 PM ---
NDoofus just sent me one impersonal junk e-mail yesterday that I simply deleted without comment. I have no idea what is going on between her ears.
Bones
--- End quote ---
Bones,
Maybe you are habit-forming :o I mean, for her, forwarding junk mail to you is a habit, perhaps?
On the other hand, I had a relative who put me on the mailing list so that her condo association newletter was sent to me (1,000 miles away) monthly.
To me, that was junk mail... it had absolutely nothing to do with her, personally.
And I still have relatives who forward their junk mail to me in the form of magazines, etc... and sometimes it appears that they haven't read this stuff themselves.
I could understand a bit, if there were some particular article of interest hilighted, but it really is nothing but rubbish!
Dunno.
Happy Friday, Bones!
Love,
Carolyn
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Certain Hope on June 27, 2008, 11:28:41 AM ---
--- Quote from: BonesMS on June 26, 2008, 12:37:50 PM ---
NDoofus just sent me one impersonal junk e-mail yesterday that I simply deleted without comment. I have no idea what is going on between her ears.
Bones
--- End quote ---
Bones,
Maybe you are habit-forming :o I mean, for her, forwarding junk mail to you is a habit, perhaps?
On the other hand, I had a relative who put me on the mailing list so that her condo association newletter was sent to me (1,000 miles away) monthly.
To me, that was junk mail... it had absolutely nothing to do with her, personally.
And I still have relatives who forward their junk mail to me in the form of magazines, etc... and sometimes it appears that they haven't read this stuff themselves.
I could understand a bit, if there were some particular article of interest hilighted, but it really is nothing but rubbish!
Dunno.
Happy Friday, Bones!
Love,
Carolyn
--- End quote ---
Well, NDoofus sent me a personalized e-mail asking me if anything was wrong. (DUH! :roll: :P) I told her I am ANGRY and that I need time to think! She asks if I am angry in general or angry at her. (Double DUH!!!!) I SHOUTED at her that I AM ANGRY AT HER AND LEAVE ME ALONE AND LET ME THINK! Her response? "Well, we can continue this conversation via e-mail or you can call me at work. I have a meeting and BLAH, BLAH, BLAH......" NDoofus has gotta be dumber than a bucket of rocks!!!!!
Bones
Certain Hope:
--- Quote from: BonesMS on June 27, 2008, 09:02:07 PM ---
Well, NDoofus sent me a personalized e-mail asking me if anything was wrong. (DUH! :roll: :P) I told her I am ANGRY and that I need time to think! She asks if I am angry in general or angry at her. (Double DUH!!!!) I SHOUTED at her that I AM ANGRY AT HER AND LEAVE ME ALONE AND LET ME THINK! Her response? "Well, we can continue this conversation via e-mail or you can call me at work. I have a meeting and BLAH, BLAH, BLAH......" NDoofus has gotta be dumber than a bucket of rocks!!!!!
Bones
--- End quote ---
Bones...
Are you really thinking about what you might want to say to her?
Or are you avoiding her?
Just asking because... if you've really made up your mind already, that you don't want to hear from her again, then just saying that to her directly can be so liberating!
On the other hand, if you've not decided, definitely, that you want to close the door on further communication... then she has no reason to stop contacting you.
I'm sorry if you have already said you told her that and I've forgotten... but I don't recall you ever drawing that final boundary?
Love,
Carolyn
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