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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Shame Slayer on July 27, 2008, 06:00:40 PM ---Bones - what program did you see about N mothers? Were they able to describe their experience in a way that really portrays the horror?
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It was a Fox 5 morning show called "Mike and Juliet". I was only able to catch bits and pieces here and there because I was at work and the crisis lines were ringing. What little I could catch had two daughters of two different Nmothers describing what they endured.
Bones
BonesMS:
Found this blog posted on an Autistic Tourist site. Fortunately, for the victim, the incident occurred in Virginia. This soon-to-be-ex wife sounds like an N! :P
http://www.freewebs.com/lifewiththents/weblog.htm
Bones
BonesMS:
So far, (knock on wood), NDoofus has left me alone.
I did have a blow-up with blueberry when he backed out, at the last minute, from an event we had been planning for three months. Blueberry knows that he's on extremely thin ice given that he has a habit of doing the same stuff repeatedly. I told him that "if nothing changes, nothing changes" and I'm ready to make some changes that I know he won't like! He attempted to give me flowers and I gave the flowers back telling him that the same old behaviors does NOT fix this problem! The problem can no longer be ignored by him and I am done! He's making other efforts to make amends so I have to give him credit for trying.
Bones
BonesMS:
I know that bf meant well but I wish he had talked to me before he contacted NDoofus to tell her about my recent medical problems. I have not been feeling well for 2 to 3 weeks to the extent that it was affecting my job performance. My job performance has deteriorated where I am at the risk of being fired. When I saw my doctor, she did an EKG and it came back abnormal. I'm on unpaid medical leave while I undergo a battery of tests to see exactly what is going on with my heart. Once all the results are in, then I have to make a decision regarding my ability to continue the job I have been doing for the past year or if I have to file for disability.
For now, I'm dealing with e-mails from NDoofus asking what she can do to "help" me. :P
Bones
Ami:
Dear Bones
I am sorry you are not feeling well. My heart goes out to you, dear. I wish all is well. You have certainly been through enough sorrow for 10 people's lifetimes with an NM like you had. Ami
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