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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

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BonesMS:

--- Quote from: Ami on August 12, 2008, 05:48:36 PM ---Dear Bones
 I am sorry you are not feeling well. My heart goes out to you, dear. I wish all is well. You have certainly  been through enough sorrow for 10 people's lifetimes with an NM like you had.                     Ami

--- End quote ---

Thanks, Ami.

I'm still awaiting the results of my nuclear stress test.  Not knowing is making me nervous.  When I was in the cardiology office, I had to fill out a questionnaire regarding my family medical history.  Both parents had a history of heart problems and this is one genetic "gift" I could do without.

Bones

Ami:
I am thinking of you, Bones. It sounds really scary to be waiting for test results. My heart goes out to you,friend. I will be awaiting good news.     Ami

BonesMS:

--- Quote from: Ami on August 15, 2008, 08:25:09 AM ---I am thinking of you, Bones. It sounds really scary to be waiting for test results. My heart goes out to you,friend. I will be awaiting good news.     Ami

--- End quote ---

Thanks, Ami.

To top it off, I get a phone call from NDoofus last night asking me about my health and test results.  I was too tired to fuss much....just did not have the energy.  Then she tells me that her youngest sister has been diagnosed with esophogeal cancer that may have mestastisized to her liver.  This sister is younger than I am.  I can empathize for her sister as I have had family members who died of cancer and I've seen how much pain they are in.  Hopefully, facing her sister's mortality will be a wakeup call for NDoofus.  NDoofus also informed me that she apologized to her other sister for violating her boundaries and that her sister accepted her apology.  (I have to say, that is progress.)  She stated that she is frightened for both her sister and me because of what each of us are facing.  For now, I'm just focusing on resting as much as possible and trying to eat nutritious meals.  BF is bringing me yogurt, milke, juice and cereal.  Basically, I'm just trying to deal with this one day at a time.

Bones

Ami:
Dear Bones
 It sounds really, really hard. I am sorry you are going through this!                  Ami

BonesMS:

--- Quote from: Ami on August 15, 2008, 03:01:56 PM ---Dear Bones
 It sounds really, really hard. I am sorry you are going through this!                  Ami

--- End quote ---

Thanks, Ami.

NDoofus "dropped by" to bring me a salad.  BF intercepted her in the hallway to prevent her aggravating me.  (He understands how she can get on my nerves.)

Bones

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