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BonesMS

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5415 on: January 28, 2014, 06:48:30 AM »
Hum, I feel like that article is pretty common about how people change when they get married. Lots of step-parents and re-marriages do this to their children from previous marriages. The children are like an after-thought. Seems like something that many people experience in one way or another.

With this brother, I really don't know because we only have the letter writer's word about this.  I can't help but feel there is more going on than the letter writer is willing to reveal.
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« Reply #5416 on: January 28, 2014, 11:47:07 PM »
Yah for sure, we never get ALL of the details.

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« Reply #5417 on: January 29, 2014, 06:18:44 AM »
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20140129

Regarding the last letter,  this "friend" has a crying meltdown when she's told NOT to snoop into or take other people's things without permission and the "friend's" husband goes after whoever DARED say "No" to his wife's prying and taking?!?!?  With "friends" like that, who needs enemies?

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« Reply #5419 on: January 29, 2014, 06:30:06 AM »
Yah for sure, we never get ALL of the details.

Plus it's been discovered that the advice columnists edit out quite a bit before they publish anything.
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« Reply #5420 on: January 30, 2014, 04:51:12 AM »
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« Reply #5424 on: January 31, 2014, 03:34:55 AM »
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« Reply #5427 on: January 31, 2014, 04:54:43 AM »
Struggling with PTSD flashbacks....probably why I can't sleep.  Yesterday, as I was following up with comparison shopping for health insurance to see if I can find a better deal than what I have currently, the gentleman who was helping me navigate through the database asked me a question that is part of establishing one's identity in a computer...."What was the name of one of my childhood friends?"

It suddenly hit me that I NEVER had childhood friends so I couldn't name anyone. 
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« Reply #5428 on: January 31, 2014, 05:13:28 PM »
Aww, Bones.

You can lie and tell them Miss Persnickitoophilus Hopalongitus was your BFF, but
she moved away....

Hops
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« Reply #5429 on: January 31, 2014, 05:18:17 PM »
Aww, Bones.

You can lie and tell them Miss Persnickitoophilus Hopalongitus was your BFF, but
she moved away....

Hops

All I could do was draw a blank......

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