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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

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Tweety:
Bones, Hops & Janet,
Thanks, yes "entitled" is definitely a great description of this Dr and he is not young he is in his late 50's. All the sexual talk was getting out of line and really bothering me, so the other stuff just pushed me over the edge and I knew I had to say something. I have to tell yo guys though, this is the first time I ever got an apology when I told someone "No means No kinda thing..( asserted my boundaries) .. so I was a little stunned as well. I'm used to dealing with"N"s and we all know how that goes.........IT would have been all my fault somehow.blah blah
 I just hope he connects the dots and realises the sexual overtones has to go as well.
Tweety

Ami:
Dear Tweety,
  I think that you learned the "power" of your voice. This guy"helped" to teach you a lesson. Do you agree?
  I did not get what you meant about me "swearing" until now.
  YES, I swear that we will take better care of and nurture ourselves--- GULP         Love    Ami


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Certain Hope:

--- Quote from: BonesMS on August 16, 2007, 06:59:21 PM ---I need to give myself some space to cool off before I say anything.  If I speak in anger, I may say things that I'll regret later.

Bones

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Very wise, Bones... stick with the facts, ma'am... just the facts :)

Happy Friday to you, tomorrow!

Love,
Hope

BonesMS:

--- Quote from: Certain Hope on August 16, 2007, 10:07:47 PM ---
--- Quote from: BonesMS on August 16, 2007, 06:59:21 PM ---I need to give myself some space to cool off before I say anything.  If I speak in anger, I may say things that I'll regret later.

Bones

--- End quote ---

Very wise, Bones... stick with the facts, ma'am... just the facts :)

Happy Friday to you, tomorrow!

Love,
Hope

--- End quote ---

Thanks, Hope!

I'm also working at the Hotline during the weekend so that will keep me busy!

Bones

Certain Hope:

--- Quote from: BonesMS on August 18, 2007, 12:13:31 AM ---Thanks, Hope!

I'm also working at the Hotline during the weekend so that will keep me busy!

Bones

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Oh, Bones... and here I thought you'd have the weekend off!
Do you follow somewhat of a prepared script in working the Hotline?
That sounds quite challenging... definitely need to be an excellent listener, I'd think.

Rainy day ahead here, so I'll be plowing through a stack of paperwork the kids brought home from school.
Parents get the most homework when a new school-year begins :)
Take good care of yourself, sweet Bones.

Love,
Hope

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