https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4o0xuj/passive_aggy_and_presents_part_1/ARRRGGHHH!!!! This triggered a memory from years ago! No matter how hard I TRIED to find a nice gift, I would ALWAYS get screamed and cursed at while being called the R-Word! Never mind the fact that I asked, NUMEROUS TIMES, what they would like for thus-and-such gift occasion. Their behaviors would equate to: "Read my mind and guess what I want!", then being shat on because I "guessed wrong"! At the end, they finally started wondering WHY I stopped giving them any gifts altogether. By then, my attitude toward all of them was: "F**K OFF!!! I am NOT wasting my time, energy, and money if the only result is going to be additional abuse aimed at the Family Scapegoat! F**K THAT $H!T!!!! I'm DONE!!!!"
