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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7860 on: December 20, 2016, 09:43:01 AM »
I'm safe for a few days now.  I won't be dealing with Captain Narcissist again until January for the next club meeting.  With Mr. Tantrum, I won't be seeing him until the next Board meeting in January.  I'm at the point where I have zero tolerance for fools!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7861 on: December 20, 2016, 07:24:57 PM »
What IS it with inDUHviduals who DEMAND "Special Exceptions" to policies/rules/regulations/procedures, etc.?!?!?!   :P

I might have mentioned, in an earlier posting, about an acquaintance who is renting out his unit.  His last tenant created quite an uproar that involved the police due to domestic violence.  He had been notified about the situation, several times, for one year in which he did NOTHING that a landlord is required to do!  When the first hearing about the situation took place, he gave a lot of excuses.  When a SECOND HEARING was required, he CHOSE NOT TO ATTEND because he felt he didn't need to bother!  Well, that cost him consequences in the way of being fined!  He appealed the fine and it was reduced.  Now he's appealing AGAIN, CLAIMING that he's being treated "unfairly"!!  WTF?!?!?   :P

This is what Mr. Tantrum threw a tantrum about!

And he demands that I pretend this crap NEVER happened and go to dinner with him and other N's?  NOPE!

Add in:  At the time he was throwing his tantrum, he was also threatening to lawyer up and sue!

THAT cannot be swept under the rug for convenience!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7869 on: December 25, 2016, 01:23:43 PM »
https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/5k90rx/my_mom_cornered_my_wife_last_night_about_our_son/?sort=new

We are all painfully familiar with having our voices denied in childhood.

I'm glad he found his and told the N's OFF!!!!
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« Reply #7871 on: December 25, 2016, 08:35:28 PM »
https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/5kaw7x/upstairs_mil_in_my_parking_lot/

Sounds like NDoofus who used to park her car in my neighbor's reserved spot, WITHOUT permission, because she REFUSED to park in the designated Visitors' Area!  Now she wonders why she is BANNED from the property!  MORON!!!!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7872 on: December 25, 2016, 08:37:14 PM »
https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/5kb6tf/she_called_me/

What part of "NO!" is NOT understood?!?!?!?   :?

And it's suddenly occurred to me that THIS PARTICULAR N has the AUDACITY to have received a HANDMADE SCARF from her DIL only to GIVE IT AWAY, almost immediately, and DEMAND ANOTHER FREEBIE or else what would HER friends think!!!!!   :evil:  F**K THAT NOISE!!!!  I would NOT hand-make ANYTHING for this BEEYOTCH EVER AGAIN!!!!!  This N deserves a HARD SMACKDOWN!!!!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7873 on: December 27, 2016, 04:25:35 PM »
Recently learned something new about my Cousin:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QcCrP24_Rww

I had NO idea he wrote a Hanukkah song!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7874 on: December 28, 2016, 08:42:30 AM »
My homeless cousin managed to call me last night, talking a mile a minute!  I'm not sure which is more uncomfortable...listening to her ramble while she's drunk out of her mind, or the rapid-fire yakking I was hearing last night that was making me wonder if she's actually Bipolar, having a Manic episode, and off her meds.

She's currently in a nursing home because she had a bad fall and she was describing all the various therapies she's having, e.g. speech therapy, occupational therapy, physical therapy, etc., etc.  Because she was talking so much about the speech therapy she was having, I asked her if she had a stroke or something like that.  (Egg-donor had to have speech therapy after her stroke and strokes are a HUGE risk on the maternal side of the family.  This particular cousin is related through Narcissistic Egg-Donor.)  Cousin denied she ever had a stroke and said it was because she had a bad fall.  (Uhhh...Cousin, Egg-donor had a BAD fall at the time she had her stroke while she was walking outdoors.)  Fortunately, for Cousin, she had her mishap outside of a hospital so she didn't have to go far to the Emergency Room.

She also kept fishing for my address so I gave her my post office box again.  (I really do NOT want her turning up on my doorstep, with her hand out, asking me for money.  She's tried to fish for money or access to using my home to use my shower and I've always told her NO.)

I feel bad for her, given that she's homeless, and, at the same time, with the medical crap that's going on with me, I have more than enough on my own plate.  I can't deal with her issues right now.
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