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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
BonesMS:
I'm not sure if I had mentioned his N-behaviors in previous postings. I feel a huge sense of RELIEF that we will never be subjected to that again.
Twoapenny:
It's good to see you, Bonesie :) I think it's odd when someone difficult/abusive/uncaring or whatever they may have been passes. I think we can sometimes care for the person but not the behaviour and that's hard to separate out. I feel sorry for his twin, he's probably been subjected to a lot over the years. How have you been other than that? xx
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Twoapenny on July 21, 2021, 04:36:59 AM ---It's good to see you, Bonesie :) I think it's odd when someone difficult/abusive/uncaring or whatever they may have been passes. I think we can sometimes care for the person but not the behaviour and that's hard to separate out. I feel sorry for his twin, he's probably been subjected to a lot over the years. How have you been other than that? xx
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I'm trying to deal with stuff one day at a time.
lighter:
--- Quote from: BonesMS on July 20, 2021, 07:22:00 AM ---I'm not sure if I had mentioned his N-behaviors in previous postings. I feel a huge sense of RELIEF that we will never be subjected to that again.
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I didn't assume you meant anything in particular, Bones.
Frankly, I don't think it matters what or why we feel.
It matters that we tend to our feelings, whatever they are, and know they belong, IME. Without judgment.
Lighter
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: lighter on July 21, 2021, 10:14:35 AM ---
--- Quote from: BonesMS on July 20, 2021, 07:22:00 AM ---I'm not sure if I had mentioned his N-behaviors in previous postings. I feel a huge sense of RELIEF that we will never be subjected to that again.
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I didn't assume you meant anything in particular, Bones.
Frankly, I don't think it matters what or why we feel.
It matters that we tend to our feelings, whatever they are, and know they belong, IME. Without judgment.
Lighter
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Thanks.
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