Dear Kelly,
I can SO relate to you"losing it" .I can relate to you crying and telling them,over the phone, that you have PMS and just had surgery.
It is UTTER exhaustion--- mental,emotional and physical.
I think that there is a "let down" after surgery-. I have heard this from friends who anticipated a surgery for a long time. At first when it was over, they were elated. Then, they got depressed . I think that the enormity of the physical "assault' on the body hit them.
You have had many life 'crisis's" Moving is a HUGE life crisis.
You put many hopes and dreams in to the surgery and you may be having a let down b/c it is over ..Now, you are back to 'real life". Just a thought. Love to you Ami