Where's Write?

[lighter]

Did I miss something? 

Where's Write?

[Certain Hope]

Lighter,

About a week ago, at her birthday, Write said that she was going to take some time away from the board. That was the last I heard.

Now I see that she has deleted her member account. I don't know.

I hope and pray that Write is well.

Love,
Hope

[lighter]

I tried to find her but she's no longer a registered member, ,Hope, you're right.   

Oh, feeling really really badly about this. 

Bad bad bad.... not good. 

Lighter misses Write: (

[Certain Hope]

It's not necessarily bad, Lighter... just one of those things.

I've deleted my account in the past... and then returned, with the same name.

Really, I'm quite sure it's just one of those things we each experience and find our own unique way of managing.

Love,
Hope

[lighter]

But why does account have to be gone?

[Certain Hope]

I don't know the reasons for anyone else, but for me, I felt safer to close my account... more secure.

At the time, I didn't plan to come back, but I did... right away... but still, even once I reopened my member account, I stopped posting and reading for many months. It can get to be too much for me, I know.

Besides, growing and healing is a very personal endeavor. I remember feeling that I'd put enough of myself out there into the wild blue yonder for a season. Everyone has a different style, too. Personally, I wouldn't want any fanfare.

I dunno, Lighter... everybody's different.

[lighter]

It just feels so empty not to be able to message her..... even if she never came back to read it. 

I'd know it was there.

I know she's moved on and is doing OK. 

Moved beyond the board, and that's the goal, I understand.

That makes it easier to get over my nurturing little baby needs, lol.