All the boyfriends that I had in my life were exactly the same kind. Same personality, same everything. Including my husband, 17 years of nothing and now I had several men flirting with me in dance class, and I get exited with the only one that is that particular style.
I have read all your posts, every single one. All of you are right. If you play with fire, yes, you get burned. Why not to take a different street. have fun and be an adult, knowing that I cannot expect anything. Find out if he is a good person other than a womanizer. Have fun as an adult that I am. That intimacy increases emotional expectations, no matter what.
I still do not know what to do. Dating, dating. Please, dear friends, tell me about your dating experiences. Also, I will keep meditating and reading every single thing you write in this matter.
And, yes, he is very nice with me. Sweet as it could be. I melt. I am in danger to have a horrible hang over, over this guy, whenever he decides to run away. If he feels trapped, he will run away. I think that is his coping mechanism. He must feel safe that way. Probably he projects his mother into any woman and tries to keep her distant.............wow.............CB had that problem with her husband. OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! CB where are you? Can you remember posting about your husband making provoking you so you become like his mother? But you always had a good time with him, do you rememebr?