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Anonymous:
Learning,

No need to apologize. I would have replied sooner, but I was too busy and couldn't. Even now, I'm short on time..

I think you were severely traumatized and that's why you're still thinking about this stuff. For goodness's sake, one doesn't just forget about it. I think you're in therapy, which is the right place.

The following may shock you, and I'm sorry. But I am not blaming you AT ALL. Just wanted to say that your father (as far as I can tell) should be incarcerated. I don't think you owe him anything. He should have been arrested. I am very sorry for you, and for all the teenagers he harmed.

bunny

Anonymous:
Hi Learning,

No need to apologize!  You were/are wounded and are now able to look at it and start healing.  That's growth.  

BTW, your post didn't sound all that angry or sarcastic, esp. in light of all you went through.  But I can believe you are feeling that way.  Please be gentle with yourself and allow yourself to create your own process of getting through this.  Give yourself the time and patience you wish you had when you were little.  

if you want to write it all out, that's what the board is for.  Maybe your "stuff" needs to come out to meet the light of day.  Go ahead.  Or don't.  There's no wrong way to wrestle with it.  Peace, Seeker

Learning:
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