What's Your Goal Re Your N???

[axa]

My goal without a doubt is to Nfree.  To have the widsom to walk away and not try and rescue, to value myself enough to know that I am worth more than being a victim, to be excited and happy in my life so that there is no room for an N, to be peaceful within myself, to feel loved by myself and hopefully one or two others.

A tall order but working on it

axa

[gratitude28]

(((((((axa)))))))))
Can I be one of the others??? You are an awesome person who is an example to others. You are worth way more than being a victim or being sucked in...
Love, Beth

[reallyME]

I don't want to necessarily say my "N" anymore, since it was not diagnosed professionally...but my goal is to hope that ____ truly finds peace in herself from God, that her ministry would prosper and that with the measure of mercy she gives to others, it will be given to her.  I expressed the actions that happened with the situation. My heart was never to tear apart the person.  In my view, she deserves a chance to be all God called her to be and to walk alongside whomever she chooses in life.  I want to see her never have another depressed moment because of the people in life.  I want her children to love the Lord and serve Him all the days of her life.  I want her to one day get a revelation from God of the deepest part of his love.

and I sincerely mean it, no matter what happens from this point on.  I agree with the other person who posted to this board...NO BITTERNESS IN ME TOWARD PEOPLE.

so be it.

~reallyME

[Starfish]

My goal in regard to my Nmom is to figure out how not to take her decisions regarding her life so personally.

My goal is also to learn to accept that she will never be the mom I wanted, and to accept that thios is not a refection on me.

My goal is to learn not to feel guilty that I don't like my mom, or want her near me, or that I don't even really love her.

[gratitude28]

That's it!!!!To live without bitterness. Right on!