Hope That the Bagworm Doesn't Come Out Tonight

[changing]

It is a full moon, and another deadline for Bagworm and the Moron to submit a list of items to be picked up and confirm an appointment for this evening has passed. I just pray that Bagworm doesn't come up with a new stunt- I am off from law school nut cannot really enjoy my freedom because I know that Bagworm may be lurking and lie to the police again, etc- I must be vigilant and ready! No marshal has been assigned to me tonight because Bagworm is not supposed to be here, but he came anyway last weekend- Bleeh!!!!

My lawyer has filed numerous documents and made form interrogatory requests, etc  - no response so far from the Bogus Brothers! I have approximately 2 more hours, then I can leave and enjoy the rest of the weekend!Hope he ate too much turkey, had a bad potato, or something and got a tummyache to think about, instead of torturing me!

Love,

Changing

[Leah]

Dear Changing,

Truly, understand the concern regarding 'full moon' and Bagworm.

Hope and pray, he does not consider venturing forth in your direction.

Have you to sit and wait for 2 hours wondering?

Not nice, Changing.

Love & Hugs,

Leah

[changing]

Leah-

Thank you so much for understanding Leah- and for being there tonight, I don't feel alone or crazy!!!!

Love,

Changing

[lighter]

Awwwww, Changing.


I'm stuck doing paperwork and in tonight too.

I'm so sorry the cost of dealing with BW is so high......it's traumatic and I don't know why he's allowed to keep frittering around like he does over his stuff. 

When does it become clear that he doesn't want the stuff.... he wants to jerk you around?

I should think you've warehoused it long enough.  He's had several chances to get it.

::frustrated sigh::

All things, good and bad, must come to an end.  This too shall pass ((Changing))

[changing]

Lighter You Charming Person!!!

Thank you for your encouragement and hope! I had really spiffed up the garage, bought the floor covering materials that car dealers used- bagworm insisted on bringing his worthless junk from his apartment (one of his many times that he left) that I begged him just to tash-now my garage is filled with ugly junk, and my lawyer says I can't dump it!!"Not yet". hope to have a real clean sweep soon!!! Thank you for your help and fortitude!

Love,

Changing

[Leah]

Dear Changing,

Been thinking - yes, it happens now and then!   

Bagworm's junk should go into commercial 'Storage'

Bagworm would receive the bill of course!

Could that be a possibility?

Love, Leah

[isittoolate]

Good Luck , changing

Isn't it just the most crazy-making thing, to deal with an N. I knew you were going to say he put his junk in your garage before I read it.

Made me think of the garage that I would help clean when the N was ready to take all the cardboad to the recycling centre. I flattened all those boxes and he loaded them into the Jimmy, and after about 4 trips I could see the garage floor. I swept it and had the other piles of junk ready for him and after that there was room to put one of his cars in there.

But, he was always ordering computer parts and theyt came in boxes, so the car had to be moved and the boxes were thrown into the garage and well............... I might have cleaned it twice, but no more!

I was thinking of Storage ffor BW's junk too. .....Hmmmmmmmmmm?????

Hang in there

love
Izzy

[changing]

Leah and Izzy-

Oh I would love to rid myself of the lathesome sight  of Bagworm's offal. Unfortunately, I have to heed my lawyer's admonitions- but I will ask to take them out as a part of what is needed for renovations- perhaps then I can eradicate the devastation and bloght of the Bagworm and its droppings!!!

Love you both and thank you for being on my side,

Changing

[changing]

Hi-

Looks like Bagworm is not coming tonight!!! Hooray!! Sory to post this thread, but I was feeling a definite anxiety and I appreciate the friends who helped with it. Looks like no incident reports with cops tonight!! WHHOOOHOOO!!!

Love and Thanks,

Changing

[lighter]

He's not coming is sort'a a good thing.... in a still stuck with his crap sort'a way, lol?

Darnit.... there's nothing good comes from dealing with him, is there?

And how can you still not know where he lives? 

Doesn't that PI know where he plays.... so he can follow him home, lol?

Eh... just glad you're feeling free of him tonight.

Enjoy the rest of your weekend: )

[changing]

Hi Lighter-

The good thing about the Bagworm not coming tonight is that I don't have workers or a marshal here- that coward only pulls stunts when I am alone (as I am now). When I am alone, he brings cops and sends Morons to jump my fence, get violent and destroys my work, etc. I want him to get all of his stuff and do it properly, as agreed upon, with a video camera taping everything and a marshal watching the whole time. I will think about the other items that you brought up, my general- thank you for your wise martial directions! You are the best- wry, artistic, subtle and outrageous as well, a real delight and fighter (rhymes with lighter) too!

I can't wait until Bagworm is gone and forgotten!!! Hope that all is well with you and that you have peace and ease for a change!

Love,

Changing

[lighter]

He needs to come around in the day, during a planned visit when you do have others around.  Maybe a video camera, as well?

Don't agree to this 9pm at night crap either.  What in the heck was that about?

Was he planning on coming and starting a big move at night?!?!?

Just nuts!

I guess I'm stuck on that word tonight. 

He shouldn't be allowed in the main part of the home, as long as all his things are packed and in the garage, IMO.

I also like the idea of a storage facility, at some point. 

He has his own place. 

He says he wants his things. 

So frustrating that the criminals get away with murder and the good guys are held to this impossible standard with the nut pointing and lying and making stuff up....

it's....


just.....

 nuts: )

hee

[changing]

Lighter,

You know, when we are such goody goodies, we are like fish in a barrel for violators! I felt like taking off and leaving everything but the pets, and putting in my own odd behavior to the mix- I got a great offer from another law school- but my lawyer cajoled me into staying...I wonder what will be left when the dust settles?

You have a beautiful night, a great sleep, and a fantastic Sunday. You are very much loved and appreciated around these parts of the woods, Lighter- take good care of yourself!!!!

Love,

Changing

[lighter]

Hope you slept well, Changing.

I didn't.

I gotta chuckle over your comment that sometimes you consider adding your own odd behavior to the mix.... I do too but.... I don't think we really have it in us.

Darnit, lol; )

[changing]

Hi Lighter-

I really slept beautifully, thank you! I'm sorry that you had a hard night. As far as odd behavior, I don't think that Bagworm knew that I would fight him as I have- the lawyer, the revelations to the court, making him leave the property, etc- my original intention was to have a quiet and civil divorce, no lawyers, just splitting up everything. He agreed to this, but was compelled to make trouble for me with lies and coercion, etc.

It would be fun to do something really out of character- when the inspirartion hits, I'll run it past you.

Hope you have a great Sunday and sleep the sleep of the innocent tonight!!!

Love and Thanks,

Changing