I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!
Lighter, Ami, Tayana Hoppy, Izzy-
I am fired up now, and I'm going to bag me a beaten-down nailed to the wall Bagworm!! Thank you for the suggestions-
Lighter, I pay the mortgage and taxes, insurance and even health insurance for both of us (all are up to date)- he just has to pay his own stupid bills, but nooooo! What a jackal! I was surprised and shocked, but now I just want to get crackin' on fixing this mess now, so I have a chance at getting a mortgage in my name only in March!
Ami- The rudeness and condescension slapped me down for a minute- I think it was my NFOO history that gave it added punch- but it really helped to have my friends here on this board to talk openly about it with, and to be understood and not condemned to the gallows!!! Thank you for being on my side!
Tayana- Thank you for the work you did- I usually do this sort of thing for others but no one ever does thngs like this for me. I hate to take up your time as you are so loaded with responsibility, but I must say that it really touched me that you would help me like that- it was so nice of you. I will use those resources right away!
Hoppy- The Wise Woman with the magic words- I LOVE THIS- though now that I am armed to the teeth with your words, my attitude will probably be enough to make any would-be judges shut their stinking gobs before they even open them!!!!!
Izzy- There is no torture like that inflicted by an accountant (like the IRS does) ...lovely lovely!Death by a thousand cuts!!!! I am going to inflict as much justice upon the Bagworm as possible, by keeping records of this psychodrama and extracting every cent in reparations that I can!!! And my lawyer and I now have a fee basis arrangement, with no more payments unless it's for something other than the divorce and related items, so I might as well start tabulating!!! Oh, and I'd better get my hammer and a 16 penny nail!
Love and Thanks,
Changing