You know, many of us are saying such awful things about our parents but I have a GOOD story about my Dad,
In 1946 I had a baby brother be born, Feb 22 and he died 6½ months later, Sept 7, acute leukemia.
This is not about how little I knew about death etc. and he was laid out in the farm house parlour.
Now he and my dad and mom lay in graves in Thermont Cemetery, perpetual care. The last was mom in 1996... when I overheard my brother say something about one plot left and he would be in touch with all of us about his being able to use it for himself, wife, maybe children and grandchildren if all were cremated..
I went back home and thought about it because I remembered that back in 1946, maybe 1947, when I was 7-8 my mother told me Dad had purchased EIGHT plots--2 parents and 6 children .
At the same time, 1996, one sister and her husband had prepaid their funerals and were now looking for a resting place.
I suggested that they use her spot in Thermont and surprised the hell out of her that I said that. She didn’t believe me,
Then I emailed my brother and told him to check with the Cemetery people and he would learn that there are 5 more plots, one for each of us to use and there ought to be no fights or money changing hands.
Sure enough, I was right!
So my resting place was paid for by my father when I was 7 yeas old--wonder what they cost these days????
Izzy