Setting the record straight about Ami

[paps]

Tell the truth Ami.

[Ami]

Paps,
  You have seven postings and you SEEM to come out ONLY for me. Hmmmmmmmmmmmm?

[paps]

You are right.  I am hoping you will have the courage to tell the truth.  When you can look at the facts and tell the truth, you will begin to heal.  I know you can do this Ami. Tell the truth.

[Gabben]

Lise, if you truly care about Ami, you will quit enabling her.  I  am not Leah.  It doesn't matter who I am.  This is real important for Ami's healing.

Tell the truth Ami.  I know you can.  I have faith in you.

I already have told the truth to Ami - what are friends for...perhaps though when I tell the truth I do with gentleness and love, sharing my own experience so that she does not feel ashamed. I have set limits with her and she has admitted to me that this board (if you really read her posts about the rejection), Ami is aware of her issues and she is already beating herself up enough. If she was to give in to this board and say "your right, I made a mistake -- it was selfish of me and inconsiderate of me to keep overstepping Janet's limits (which she already confessed to in a round about way on another post) then this board would lynch her, condemn her and them smugly say see told you so.....does she need that - what about compassion.

I care about Janet - that must have been hard for you to set limits and then see a friendship end. It must of been a really painful trigger, gathering from your story, about the secrets, I understand your feelings.

I just don't think it is right to hang her out to dry here in shame.

*******************************  Like those asterisks?
As for Leah - The bible tells us to expose the wolf's in sheep's clothings....I'm not trying to tarnish your image...perhaps if you did not have an image, you would not have so much to defend against.

Trust me - I am no enabler.  I could less about being popular and liked and whatever...I love the truth too much for that.

Lise

[Ami]

I  stick with my original assessment,Paps. When Janet requested that I leave her alone---I did. That is it. Where is abuse? If a thousand people come "against" me,I know that I am right and I am at peace.
  I guess that is it.                                             Ami

[paps]

Lise, when you make excuses that are contrary to the facts, you are enabling.  When you blame the victim, you are enabling.

I know you know what the truth is Ami.

Tell the truth Ami.  There is no shame in telling the truth. You will begin to heal if you tell the truth.

[Gabben]

Lise, when you make excuses that are contrary to the facts, you are enabling.  When you blame the victim, you are enabling.

I know you know what the truth is Ami.

Tell the truth Ami.  There is no shame in telling the truth. You will begin to heal if you tell the truth.

Paps --- go smear your own self.

[Ami]

I am out of here. Lynch me in effigy.

[Gabben]

I am out of here. Lynch me in effigy.

I'm leaving too - bye.

[paps]

Tell the truth Ami. 

[Gabben]

Tell the truth Ami. 

Paps -- quit battering her.

[paps]

I am helping her.  Quit enabling her.  If you care about her, quit enabling her.

[lighter]

Ami is aware of her issues and she is already beating herself up enough. If she was to give in to this board and say "your right, I made a mistake -- it was selfish of me and inconsiderate of me to keep overstepping Janet's limits (which she already confessed to in a round about way on another post) then this board would lynch her, condemn her and them smugly say see told you so.....does she need that - what about compassion.


*******************************  Like those asterisks?
As for Leah - The bible tells us to expose the wolf's in sheep's clothings....I'm not trying to tarnish your image...perhaps if you did not have an image, you would not have to defend against so much.

Trust me - I am no enabler. - I could less about being popular and liked and whatever...I love the truth to much for that.

Lise

Oh my, Lise.

Helping Ami skirt responsibility, so she doesn't have to accept it.... isn't helping her.  You can't save her from the consequences of her actions..... and I'm not talking about overstepping Janet's boundaries either.  



The stuff you wrote to Leah:  "The bible tells us to expose the wolf's in sheep's clothings....I'm not trying to tarnish your image...perhaps if you did not have an image, you would not have to defend against so much."

I see that applying very clearly to Ami's agenda..... not Leah's.  

My mouth dropped open when I read it.... what you wrote was mind boggling on target.

If you can't see that..... may I suggest you take a step away, block Ami's PM's then come back with a neutral heart and read this thread again?

Pig Piling Ami isn't the goal here..... I promise.





 

[Leah]

If you guys want to pig pile  on me--have at it. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.

Respectful reminder ...

That it was Ami herself who posted the bible passage ...... post number 11 on page 1

No one else quoted it

It was Ami ...... in defense of her blatant denial

Evident truth

Ami herself has been saying for months now that truth will set her free and she will then be healed.

Ami's own words.


Respectfully,

Leah

[lighter]

Ummmm, Paps?

Ami isn't going to admit anything. 

If she was... she would have already done it.

If everyone stops running interference for her.... and she admits to something..... I do believe it would only be to get things going her way again. 

Prolly not bc she beleives she's got some perception distortion going and would benefit from questioning her motives and actions, KWIM?