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alone48

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thanks for all being there
« on: December 16, 2007, 04:35:28 PM »
I haven't posted in awhile, but have been reading some of the issues that have been going on. Normally I wouldn't mind stepping in and voicing my opinion, but I am so fragile at this time that I don't want to risk offending anyone or vice versa. I just want to thank you all for being there when there was no one else. The first of the year is loaming and N and I have business to finish regarding the aunt. I am so dreading it and only hope I make it to the other side without caving. NC has been working, but there is no option here and it has put a dark cloud over everything. Thank you again for all being there.

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Re: thanks for all being there
« Reply #1 on: December 16, 2007, 04:38:06 PM »
Dear (((((((( alone48 ))))))))

and "Thank You" for being you.

Love, Leah
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Re: thanks for all being there
« Reply #2 on: December 16, 2007, 04:56:08 PM »
alone48

Sorry the board hasn't been able to support you recently as you need - keep strong with the NC, though, it's the best way of dealing with N's (13 years and counting with my NMUm, and it's GREAT!!).

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Re: thanks for all being there
« Reply #3 on: December 16, 2007, 05:10:27 PM »
((((((((((((((((alone)))))))))))

Thanks for checking in!!!!! Here's to a great '08!!!!

Love, Beth
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Re: thanks for all being there
« Reply #4 on: December 16, 2007, 05:16:44 PM »
I am glad you spoke up, Alone. I  am sorry you are hurting----very sorry.               Love   Ami


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Re: thanks for all being there
« Reply #5 on: December 16, 2007, 10:21:55 PM »
Hi Alone,
When you do have to be in the presence of the UGH to deal with your aunt's issues...
don't forget there's a crowd of pitbull Amazons hovering all around you.

GRRR. Let him TRY to intimidate you.

You will be completely contained and calm.

And then right back to NC with that Nasty.

love
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