moved out/ wife setting traps

[Whistler]

So I moved out of my house quickly taking vert little. My wife changed the locks. I asked if I could have a few cooking itens, bedding, tec- she refused- then she
sent me a box with all old tupperware containers. My lawyer says I have a legal right to go to the house with  a lock smith and go and get my personal items- and video tape it.

I am concerned about going near the place. What do you think?

[Leah]

Dear Whistler,

Your lawyer could have offered to send a legal letter containing an itemized listing of the items you request, with a dated deadline.

Was this offered to you?

Leah

[Gaining Strength (guest)]

Talk with the local police about escorting you in.  Then you will have witnesses about your activities.  Pass this by your attorney before you do.  If you don't get police to help then get someone you trust with a video camera and have the vidoe camera run the ENTIRE time you are in the house making a complete record of what you take.

[lighter]

My husband could come and go as he pleased.  The house belongs to both of you..... you have equal right to it's use and contents, according to the law.

You don't want make trouble getting your things, in case someone cares about her yelping, which could happen.

It would be best if you had the police go with you or went when she was at work and didn't disturb her, but.... how much would it cost to pick up some basic kitchen things?

She'll make it a hardship, in any case, to deal with her at every turn.

It's just stuff...... please don't give her any ammo against you over a fry pan and set of dishes and sheets.

I know it's frustrating but you have to be very mindful.  

[Lupita]

Dear Whistler:

I am very sorry for your pain and your visicitudes. But I have a quastion. Do you ever read your responses?
Poeple put time and energy responding to you. You have never ever respond to so many nice people who write to you.
Here are several nice advises.

Please, read them. It mgiht help.

You are in my prayers.

God bless you.

[Izzy_*now*]

Good Question, Lupita

so many never answer or thank anyone, nor do they post on other threads to help and support others.

no wonder we are taking about liars and trolls.

Izzy

[changing]

Hi Whistler-

You need proper legal advice- each jurisdiction is different,and you may have entered into agreements through your lawyer. If there is a protection order or something similar, you might damage your case by acting in conflict with the law. Please talk to your attorney and readyour file if possible!!!!
I am confused as to what happened and when,etc. Hope you take good care and stay strong.

Best,

Changing