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Dr. Richard Grossman

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Re: my mom died today
« Reply #15 on: January 08, 2008, 09:11:31 AM »
I'm very sorry, Cat's Paw.  Best wishes,

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Re: my mom died today
« Reply #16 on: January 08, 2008, 09:34:47 AM »
Cat's Paw,

I am so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you.

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Re: my mom died today
« Reply #17 on: January 08, 2008, 09:37:39 AM »
SO so sorry, ((((catspaw))))
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Re: my mom died today
« Reply #18 on: January 08, 2008, 09:48:38 AM »
((cats paw))

So very sorry for your loss and pain. Thinking of you during this difficult time.

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Re: my mom died today
« Reply #19 on: January 08, 2008, 10:00:44 AM »
Dear sweet Cat's Paw - my heart is with you.  I imagine that her death will open up so much about your emotional ties with her across your life.  I pray that you will find true healing in this process. - yours GS

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Re: my mom died today
« Reply #20 on: January 08, 2008, 10:20:16 AM »
It's such a concentrated piece of life, letting go.

Love to you, CPaw.

Sending strength, rest,

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Re: my mom died today
« Reply #21 on: January 08, 2008, 12:42:20 PM »
Sorry for what you are going through cat's paw.
Prayers for you.

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Re: my mom died today
« Reply #22 on: January 08, 2008, 12:49:12 PM »
I'm so sorry for your deep loss.  I hope during this time of grief you can hold onto those pleasant memories and good times you shared.  I pray that you will keep the concerned thoughts and love from those in your life close to you as you work through your sadness and loss.

Take very special care of yourself....My prayers and thoughts are with you.


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Re: my mom died today
« Reply #23 on: January 08, 2008, 12:59:05 PM »
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Re: my mom died today
« Reply #24 on: January 09, 2008, 07:34:53 AM »
(((((((((((((((((((cat)))))))))))))

I am so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself and enjoy fond memories of your mom. We are here when you are ready to share.

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Re: my mom died today
« Reply #25 on: January 09, 2008, 10:02:42 AM »
I'm here for you during this time of sorrow and loss.

Currently, a lady from a ministry that I belong to, is also in the hospital.  her cancer has returned and she has pneumonia.  Our ministry is believing for a miracle for her, but most of us think she is going to depart soon.  I understand how your heart feels right now.

 Please lean on us at Vboard as much as you need to, dear.

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Re: my mom died today
« Reply #26 on: January 09, 2008, 10:05:53 AM »
Thinking of you ,Cat. Thanks for your compassion,on the board. I am sorry that you are hurting.It is so sad that your M was not able to give you warm memories.even at the end.It is so pitiful how N steals all the joy out of life and relationships, Cat. I am so sorry.     Love   Ami
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Re: my mom died today
« Reply #27 on: January 09, 2008, 02:03:44 PM »
To All,

  I have read your warm responses, and I appreciate this more than I can say.  I will be able to talk more later, but it's too raw to explain right now.  My mom did leave me with some good moments to cherish in the last couple of days- one of these was  sincere
thanks when I did a couple of small things.

  Busy with finalizing details- visitation is tomorrow, and funeral Friday.

cats paw 

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Re: my mom died today
« Reply #28 on: January 09, 2008, 02:10:39 PM »
Dear (((((( Cats Paw )))))

Those precious words of sincere thanks will remain locked in your heart as tender memories.

Will be thinking of you with prayerful thoughts.

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Re: my mom died today
« Reply #29 on: January 09, 2008, 02:10:50 PM »
((((catspaw))))

You might want to write something out.... whatever you still need to say or have her take with her.... include pictures and maybe a drawing if you like that sort of thing.

It always helps me with grieving..... to put things down in words and sit with them like that.

Comforting to remember the things I sent along with my loved ones..... things that I put love into for their jouney.