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axa

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« on: January 27, 2008, 12:07:03 PM »
I had a conversation with someone recently who suggested it is a good idea to visualise what you want and both consciously and unconsciously you aim for it.  I have no idea where to start with this.  Seems like for so long I wanted to be in a long term relationship and that ended in disaster so where do I begin.  Would anyone like to share their visualisations with me.  Might give me some ideas.

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Re: visualisation
« Reply #1 on: January 27, 2008, 01:34:54 PM »
Yes, Axa.  I can help.  In those awful post-N days, that was the kind of therapy I engaged in, or at least some of it was.  Visualization is a kind of meditation (also did that at our martial arts classes).  It takes a while to practice, but oddly enough one day it just "clicks" a bit like when learning to ride a bike.

However, one starts with very small things, because like all exercise, practice is vital.  An example (eyes closed) : visualizing a matchbox, trying to see it from all angles, above, below, the sides.  Moving on then to trying to "see" inside the closed matchbox. Anyhow, this is to give you an idea of what visualization is.  Small beginnings.  Eventually, you should be able to see a matchbox, eyes open, even if it is not there physically.

The one and only book I found an immense help was by Deepak Chopra: "The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success", which gives an idea of visualization, though perhaps in a different way.

I am sure there are many books out there about visualization, or, you could see a therapist who uses this type of method.

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Re: visualisation
« Reply #2 on: January 27, 2008, 01:37:31 PM »
Here is a literal visualization I have as my computer's desktop right now...I so understand your goal, Axa. Me too.
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Re: visualisation
« Reply #3 on: January 27, 2008, 02:19:53 PM »
Hello again Axa:

This is a visualization exercise, for example:

EXERCISE  - THE LIGHTHOUSE

         

Let us now turn our attention to a visualization exercise that focuses on  "man made" symbol that has become an archetypal one because like the diamond it can suggest something more subtle and profound.

 

·       (first read this short visualization exercise and tape it on your tape recorder )

Relax on your chair and put the recorder on, close your eyes and imagine that you are on a small ship at sea, at night. A storm is raging, and the rain beats down on the deck. The ship is rolling and pitching. All around you is darkness.

 

Feel the rolling and pitching of the ship, hear the wind howling, feel the chill of the wind and the rain on your face. See the stormy sea at night. Experience the fatigue in your muscles and the difficulty with which you wrestle with the wheel.

 

Now, in the distance, you can see a dazzling light shining. Its source is a lighthouse. Its steady, radiant beam guides you through the night. You welcome this guidance with relief. Now you know where to steer. Concentrate on the lighthouse, and visualize its light radiating in all directions to help people who have lost their way, to give guidance to all who need it. The storm is raging, the wind howling, the rain falling, the night pitch-black. But the lighthouse stands solid and shining. Nothing can shake it.

 

After a time, let the visualization gradually subside, yet keep within you this sense of SHINING STRENGTH.

 

Such an example illustrates how symbols, rightly used, will deepen their transformative function, allowing us to change our inner attitudes and outer behavior. The quality inherent in the symbols not only reveals to us new ways of experiencing ourselves and life, it also creates a new line of force in our psyche - one which can gradually become a trait in our personality and thus affect our actions.

 


axa

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Re: visualisation
« Reply #4 on: January 30, 2008, 05:54:45 PM »
Apologies for not responding sooner but I have been off line for some time........back in the land of the net again.

Thank you for your replies......... I did not make myself very clear.  I guess I was asking what I could wish for!!!! I have no idea what to want.  Does this make sense

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« Reply #5 on: January 30, 2008, 06:03:15 PM »
""I had a conversation with someone recently who suggested it is a good idea to visualise what you want and both consciously and unconsciously you aim for it.  I have no idea where to start with this.  Seems like for so long I wanted to be in a long term relationship and that ended in disaster so where do I begin.  Would anyone like to share their visualisations with me.  Might give me some ideas."" (Axa)

Hello Axa:

As this is what you said, I took you at your word LOL.
So, what would you wish for, and how would you like to go about getting it+

All the best
Hermes


axa

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Re: visualisation
« Reply #6 on: January 30, 2008, 06:14:04 PM »
Hiya Hermes,

This is the problem ............I don't know!!!!!!!!

axa

Do you think we are travelling around a circle here lol

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Re: visualisation
« Reply #7 on: January 30, 2008, 06:20:09 PM »
Most definitely, Axa...LOL.

I shall wait with bated breath for the moment you will tell me LMAO

Take care and all the best
Hermes