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peach pit:
Dag nabbit. I'm gonna stay here and alienate ever' one on this here thread until I gets an apology from Portia. I demands it, doggone it.
And you other dim bulbers, I wants one from all yous too. Right now, Ya here me now?
I'm gonna have the last word no matter whats. Understands me? Yeah, ya all tried to dog pile me but that doggone pup won't hunt. Now gets back here and 'pologize to little ol me. And do it yesterday, ya hear?
Portia, you bettter cross that pond and get down on ya kneez, girl.
Anonymous:
To Dr G.
If that last post was meant as a joke, I don't think it wasn't funny. I thought it was quite sick. And I found it distubed. I'd like to suggest it's time for some intervention from the Good Dr. Dr G, I'm making a special request here. Will you please put a stop this, please? I mean, if peach pit continues, and harrasses Portia any more, will you do something? Maybe she'll stop. But please, if she doesn't!!!!
I don't know what you could do. Close the thread, block peach pit. Something! Anything! But please don't allow it to continue. Please. Not Portia, not anybody should be told to get on her knees to apologise. :(
CG
peach pit:
Geeze, I guess stuff is only funny if it comes from you.
Yes...joke. Original poster was soft peach.
Anonymous:
Yeah real funny 'peach pit' which/who sounds so much like 'peice of s***'
Dawning:
Sjkravill wrote:
--- Quote ---What does being free in marriage look like? Good question. I wish I could articulate it. H convinces me that he wants that for me. So, I start to think I am expecting too much. He is benevolant and hoping the best for me, and I am only holding myself down. Truthfully, I don't know what I mean by that.
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Is there a lack of trust? Do you feel he needs to define you? Please don't feel obligated to answer these questions. Just offering them. I've learned by staying in contact with one of my long-term bf's from my twenties that he still needs to define me and keep me on a pedestal. I don't see how a marriage can work if people are needing to put the partner on a pedestal. I'm glad I didn't marry this person now. Eventually, people on pedestals fall off.
Bunny brought up a very good point about the difference between independence and autonomy. Thanks, Bunny. Even when someone is, in fact, independent they can still feel tied to an N emotionally and forget that they are really independent.
--- Quote ---I am so sorry to have caused such a heated conflict!
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Apology accepted but it is not your fault. HAHA. A little humour here.
--- Quote ---I am also allowed to write about how I feel, and no one has to explain anything.
--- End quote ---
True. And sometimes one can't explain something because they are not ready. The words don't come out. It is okay not to explain at demand. The question or statement, in itself, is good and can be re-read later when time has passed and then one might be able to offer an explanation. Almost everyone on this board really wants to heal and do the right thing for themselves and others. I don't see very many here shirking the explanation. I tend to be very impatient about explanations. Sometimes people don't have 'em when I want 'em and - depending on the situation - I can go a bit mental. Words coming into my mind now: patience and takes things slowwwwwwww. If people are really listening, they *will hear* and give it some thought and reply when ready.
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