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peach pit:
CG,
If you were reading properly, you'd know that people were sticking up for P. There was one soft peach and one other person outofmodelurker which may be the same person who were adamant about the apology.
Sorry you didn't like my humor, but no need for the rudeness. I was making fun of the soft peach person who kept getting in everyone's face about an apology.
Anonymous:
--- Quote from: peach pit ---CG,
If you were reading properly, you'd know that people were sticking up for P. There was one soft peach and one other person outofmodelurker which may be the same person who were adamant about the apology.
Sorry you didn't like my humor, but no need for the rudeness. I was making fun of the soft peach person who kept getting in everyone's face about an apology.
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Sniff Sniff - yep - recognise the smell of ! WAPOS. :roll: I'd know that smell anywhere. Hahahahah and quoting Nic, "Shields up" and retro rockets engaged. CG zoomin' outta here now. Leave up to you now S.
sad, that Old POS here couldn't let Dawning's good work stand. But 'onya Dawning anyway! :D
So I'm outta here folks, before some 'peice of shit's' stench sticks to me. Not engaging, POS! Go F*** yourself.
Will bring Dawning's post back to the top and hopefully POS won't interfere. But sadly, I don't think POS will be able to help himself. Or herself. We'll see.
CG
Anonymous:
--- Quote from: Dawning ---Sjkravill wrote:
--- Quote ---What does being free in marriage look like? Good question. I wish I could articulate it. H convinces me that he wants that for me. So, I start to think I am expecting too much. He is benevolant and hoping the best for me, and I am only holding myself down. Truthfully, I don't know what I mean by that.
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Is there a lack of trust? Do you feel he needs to define you? Please don't feel obligated to answer these questions. Just offering them. I've learned by staying in contact with one of my long-term bf's from my twenties that he still needs to define me and keep me on a pedestal. I don't see how a marriage can work if people are needing to put the partner on a pedestal. I'm glad I didn't marry this person now. Eventually, people on pedestals fall off.
Bunny brought up a very good point about the difference between independence and autonomy. Thanks, Bunny. Even when someone is, in fact, independent they can still feel tied to an N emotionally and forget that they are really independent.
--- Quote ---I am so sorry to have caused such a heated conflict!
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Apology accepted but it is not your fault. HAHA. A little humour here.
--- Quote ---I am also allowed to write about how I feel, and no one has to explain anything.
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True. And sometimes one can't explain something because they are not ready. The words don't come out. It is okay not to explain at demand. The question or statement, in itself, is good and can be re-read later when time has passed and then one might be able to offer an explanation. Almost everyone on this board really wants to heal and do the right thing for themselves and others. I don't see very many here shirking the explanation. I tend to be very impatient about explanations. Sometimes people don't have 'em when I want 'em and - depending on the situation - I can go a bit mental. Words coming into my mind now: patience and takes things slowwwwwwww. If people are really listening, they *will hear* and give it some thought and reply when ready.
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Strawberry/Was SoftPeach:
Geeze, I guess stuff is only funny if it comes from you.
Yes...joke. Original poster was soft peach.
I'm really have no idea at all what the reference to myself is, but I just want to make it very, very clear that "peach pit" and myself, "softpeach" are two completely different, unaquainted people here on the board.
I'm not saying anything at all regarding the content of messages-- I only just want to make the difference between us clear.
Though maybe it will get confused naturally. I can see how it might. I think I'll change my name board to "strawberry" lol....
Now, peach pit, don't go changing yours to "strawberry stem" or something! lol
SoftPeach:
Sorry you didn't like my humor, but no need for the rudeness. I was making fun of the soft peach person who kept getting in everyone's face about an apology.
Ahhh... I just read that. I get it all very nicely now. Well, I don't know what is going on with this group. :(
I'm going to join CG and leave.... Try another resource for support and sharing.
Best wishes to all of you.
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