Lise,
Why does it matter which one it was? That really has no relevance to the general point, does it? Ami
Hi Ami -- from my perspective it has relevance but my perspective is besides the point, it is not important, sorry if I offended you in asking the question.
Lise
This is by far the most important lesson I've learned here... again, thanks to the posts by Gaining Strength, as well as Lise's example...
that especially in situations such as this, where wounding is deep and pain can be inexpressible, my own perspective is beside the point.
Again, Ami, I am so sorry about my insensitivity and lack of forethought. I cannot promise to be perfect in my interactions and words, but I am certainly making it my priority to be most thoughtful about my words from now on.
Carolyn
