Oh, I'm very serious!
I met a man when I was about 8 months along. We began spending a lot of time with one another and decided to date. Keep in mind that the baby's father left the picture when I was 3 1/2 monts pregnant, so I spent the majority of my pregnancy alone.
He came to visit me when I was in the hospital. He was actually coming to see the new baby, but I hadn't delivered yet. He was so caring and supportive that I actually surprised myself by allowing him to stay in the room while I delivered...so long as he didn't look.

(I'm a little modest)
He lives 50 miles away and owns his own business, but he opened late that day so that he could be with me when I delivered. Then he drove back home only to come back later that evening to surprise me!
When I hit a major spell of post pardum depression in my first week back to work, he dropped everything and drove up to be with me. I had been crying for several hours so you KNOW I wasn't looking my best. I cried myself to sleep and again when I woke up that morning. He was there to comfort and support me the entire time.
I figure any man who could want to be with a pregnant woman who was NOT carrying his child is a rare find. He didn't bat an eye about being with me through the fattest month of my life, childbirth, AND postpardum! Now, he HAS to be a good man!
I'm not going to rush this one! I have already declaired that we must date for at least a year BEFORE any type of perminant plans are talked about. However, it's looking promising. We'll just have to see. The baby's father was nice to me for a while as well so I'm not going to allow my judgement to get clouded again.
BTW, there is no father listed on the birth certificate so there should be no complications with someone adopting my daughter. Besides, I won't marry anyone who wouldn't fully adopt her as his own anyway.
LOL! When I forwarded that email to my gentleman friend this morning, he wrote back saying, "How can she afford to eat...feeding
two faces!!"
