Hello Flowerpower,
It's just such a beautiful choice for a name here. Gentle, fragrant, colorful and therapeutic on the one one side, and with strength and resilience on the other. I like it.
It's interesting that you say your story really isn't that interesting. Now you've got me curious

? You don't need to share it though if you don't feel to. It's certainly not mandatory, thankfully. You've already explained a lot about your parents, and therefore your childhood. Pretty sad stuff, by the sounds of it.
BTW, Have you been to the other parts of the site where Dr Grossman has quite a few articles.
I highly recommend 'Therapy on the High Seas: A Search For Self' (in memory of H) written by Dr Grossman.
http://www.voicelessness.com/highseas.htmlIt's both a fantastic and also an incredibly touching story about voicelessness.
Welcome
Papillon