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Ami

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Re: catious about both men and women now
« Reply #30 on: March 25, 2008, 11:19:35 AM »
Gosh, James, Could you explain more, if you care to.                                                                       
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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James

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Re: catious about both men and women now
« Reply #31 on: March 25, 2008, 11:31:09 AM »
Towrite............I relate to everything you have written here. It  Especially the part where you say your needs were leading you and everything was hanging out then you found yourself prey to many others. I think finding that insight is so valuable and important. Seeing that in my own life allowed me to develop safety for myself and eventually has led to greater healing in this way. Thank you for sharing...........Best, James

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Re: catious about both men and women now
« Reply #32 on: March 25, 2008, 11:40:55 AM »
Gratitude28......I might sound a little philosophical but it is my belief ..All... human beings are good and loving deep inside....in our original state..... It seems many of us early on are injured from lack of love and the enormous pain we feel drives us away from who we are and then our lifes journey becomes one finding our way back home...............James

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Re: catious about both men and women now
« Reply #33 on: March 25, 2008, 11:52:39 AM »
Hi Ami..........what i was saying is this. The struggle, was ultimately the avoidance of deep pain,  resulting from early injuries. When i finally found the courage to quit running and surrendered, feeling the pain of what happened, not only did i not drown but this carried me to the surface, into a greater freedom....... I hope this makes better sense?........love, James

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Re: catious about both men and women now
« Reply #34 on: March 25, 2008, 11:57:02 AM »
That makes sense, James. My underwater was the same thing. I am coming up slowly ,as I face the distotions, as I can. Talks to you later, Friend.          Love    Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
   Carl Jung