Oh let me think here I'm sure I have had many.
Hmmm.
Two adults in household and shared responsibilities both working and child.
Ask for more help. Repeat please can you do the dishes and straighten up before I get home. Oh yes I sure will.
Dish in sink, toys all over. You take over
Ask again
Dish in sink, toys all over. You take over. Oh you know I will, sure will.
Again and
Again
Dishes half done, toys all over. You finish the dishes, re do them, and clean toys
Constantly, yes, yes, yes'd to death but the opposite of what was yes'd.
excuses all the time. I couldn't I was taking care of the baby. The dog made me not do them. I don't feel good. I am tired from working. Why should I you just re do them anyway. Your friends kept calling and I had to answer the phone.
Then when you finally get NUTS and explode they say something like, Are you Pmsing, did someone at work make you, and something as stupid even as the dog must have made you mad. Nothing I do is ever good enough. I work hard. Then you feel guilty and (Yes) I have said I was sorry. They got away with it because I just come home to doing it all myself and feeling like I was the only adult in the household.
Love
Deb