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lighter

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Re: In crisis... but here
« Reply #15 on: April 05, 2008, 08:12:02 PM »
Lupita and overcomer...... thank you for your support, prayers and kind words. 

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Re: In crisis... but here
« Reply #16 on: April 06, 2008, 08:04:21 AM »
I have friends coming to stay with me today.  As nice as it is having my children to myself..... (the little one said she feels like we're home again bc it's "just us") it'll be nice to have them here. 


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Re: In crisis... but here
« Reply #17 on: April 06, 2008, 08:37:03 AM »
Do not know your circumstances but I remember being at my wits end with my ex and told him I wanted a divorce!  The fireworks started and it was an awful six months.  11 Years have come and gone and everything is ok with him.  But when you are in the midst of it - Wild!  Hope you can get through whatever you are going through with the least bit of anxiety.
Kelly

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Re: In crisis... but here
« Reply #18 on: April 06, 2008, 05:11:08 PM »
Lighter, I know I am new and you do not know me very well, but I want you to know that I am here offering support and hoping for a positive outcome to whatever you are going through.

You are a very strong person and that will help you in your time of crisis. As you ride the waves of those chemical dumps (love that phrasing by the way), please know I and this wonderful group of people are here to support you.

Hoping for peace, wisdom and strength to be your guide as you wade through your current situation.

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Re: In crisis... but here
« Reply #19 on: April 07, 2008, 09:48:28 PM »
I'm afraid it's going to be red alert for a year or more.

Getting back into a routine with my children has helped a lot.

Tonight we had a candlelit picnic on the deck..... a heater for warmth and ice cream for our souls.

Started out with homeade strawberry sorbet but...... L's stuffed elephant and J's little stuffed dog wanted something more, so..... little buttered bread cutouts and the ice cream hit the spot.

I feel like I'm at the bottom of a tremendous mountain.... trying to find strength and resolve to climb to the top.  I'm weak but determined to get my bearings.

I have no choice, frankly.

Thanks for checking on me.


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Re: In crisis... but here
« Reply #20 on: April 10, 2008, 08:54:46 PM »
lighter:  I'm new here too, but have been terrified and desperate and felt unable to break away from craziness and abuse in my life, so I can relate.  I think it's great that you can keep in touch here, keep as many people hearing you, knowing what's going on, as possible.  And hurray for a legal team!  They're professional bulldogs, let 'em loose.

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Re: In crisis... but here
« Reply #21 on: April 11, 2008, 12:19:50 AM »
(Lighter),
I've missed you.
Sorry you are looking at the mountain from bottom. You are a fighter and will make it to the top.
Keep your children close... may your love for eachother be a beacon for you to find your way.

Praying for you all, keep safe.........seasons
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Re: In crisis... but here
« Reply #22 on: April 12, 2008, 10:15:50 AM »
Amber, g and Seasons....

Thanks for your support.

Really.

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Re: In crisis... but here
« Reply #23 on: April 12, 2008, 10:19:22 AM »
Id there is anything I could do for you, please, let me know.


Love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: In crisis... but here
« Reply #24 on: April 12, 2008, 10:46:03 AM »
Pray for me and start journaling for yourself?

(((Lupita)))  You still haven't told me how your son's doing.

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Re: In crisis... but here
« Reply #25 on: April 12, 2008, 10:52:52 AM »
I have to do tell you, let me get back at it later. Long story with my son. But he is alive, will graduate this year college, no drugs, no girl pregnant, what else can I ask?

I will PM you about my son, but when I have the energy to write about that. Not now.

Love to you.

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Re: In crisis... but here
« Reply #26 on: April 13, 2008, 06:04:12 AM »
lighter,

Thinking of you and your little ones this morning

xx

axa

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Re: In crisis... but here
« Reply #27 on: April 13, 2008, 07:56:45 AM »
Lupita...... you can talk about your son whenever you're ready.

Axa...... thanks for the kind thoughts.

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